tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24639505272083028202024-03-05T13:09:15.830-08:00The LOL ProjectStories of my life, otherwise known as crazy ramblings that may or may not be true. Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-9698852353192024192015-03-06T15:27:00.000-08:002015-03-06T15:39:15.762-08:00Judy Shittalker<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Another workshop and training seminar at work. The only thing I could think of was that if I feigned an Ebola contamination, there was a chance this ridiculous experience in counterproductive team building would be shut down. Unfortunately it also meant I would more than likely be held in quarantine with little access to cocktails or digital cable. </div>
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Ironically this particular meeting involved the keys to customer and employee satisfaction. These meetings have become a regular monthly occurrence at the service headquarters of the once giant retail company that I am employed, where most of the focus in sales is now on large appliances to redneck and racist customers that make it a point to insist we are taking the Christ out of Christmas by saying "Happy Holidays" or who share their segregationist like views that an interracial couple has no reason to be standing under mistletoe in our latest Christmas advertisement. One can only wonder that if you stop and think about it, Jesus may have been a little more ebony than ivory, having originated in the Middle East after all, and who are we to say he didn't like a little milk in his Cocoa Puffs. In this scenario I am also assuming that Jesus is straight. </div>
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As our meeting soon begins I am readying myself for two hours of pure Hell, sprinkled with heavy lidded boredom.....and then she spoke. Her name is Judy Shittalker. Her name was not really Judy Shittalker but that is what I named her soon after discovering her talent of the boisterous and the inane. </div>
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Our instructor had begun his oral interpretation of the customer service model, only to be immediately interrupted by an overweight, explicative slinging angel that was sent from redneck heaven, otherwise known as Wal-Mart, to break up the interminable monotony that the afternoon had just promised to be filled with. </div>
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"Did you know Golden Chick has a 78 oz sweet iced tea" Judy shouted. I was not aware myself of this fact and by the looks of the individuals around me,, neither were they. "Well I'm gonna tell you right now, that shit is delicious!" </div>
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I personally didn't understand what a bathtub sized sweet tea had to do with corporate customer service and quickly figured out, I also didn't care. I was now awake, I was listening because God knew what this redneck loose cannon was capable of in two hours. </div>
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The instructor was a fairly handsome man. He did have a slight speech impediment and a leg that was shorter than the other. I probably would have given all my attention to this man as he lisped and limped around the classroom, had it not been for Judy. Judy was now a vested interest. </div>
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As our instructor began to explain our customer care model, Judy interrupted Limpy McLipser to declare that the information he was providing was nothing more than "mish-mash and gobbledy gook" Those are not real words, I thought to myself, except for gook as I was informed very recently by a disgruntled customer. With her declaration Judy then hoisted her giant tea into the air and took a sip while meeting direct eye contact with our instructor. Her eyes seemed to say, "YES IT IS GOING DOWN LIKE THIS". </div>
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Soon after her remark Judy bent down to pick up a stray M&M that had fallen from the table in front of her, revealing a tattoo that was emblazoned amongst her watermelon sized breasts. It was Sylvester from the old Bugs Bunny cartoons. To this day I do not now what the statement inside the speech bubble stated other than the word PUSSY, which was clearly noticeable. </div>
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Our instructor did his best to stay on topic, but Judy would interject with nonsensical statements about the origin of steel cut oats, the history of pioneer territories in the Western United States and the difference between cockroach specimens from North versus South America. </div>
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Her rants were so random and clueless and she didn't care if someone asked her about these topics or not as they were all offered with the same degree of importance and volume from Judy. It was as if Foghorn Leghorn and Mama June from "Here Comes Honey Boo Boo" fame had had a baby, and that baby was severely shaken and grew up to love sweet iced tea. The bastard result was now sitting in front of me searching for yet another stray M&M that she by no means was leaving on the floor for Periplaneta Americana (the American Cockroach) to find later. </div>
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Our instructor quickly moved to another service model and gave an example of doing your best to move up within our company. Judy's thoughts on this was to explain "If I was the boss I would take all the best people and move them to the bottom of the heap" A collage of perplexed faces stared back at her, but in my mind I could only think SO WOULD I ! I mean I would do it just to be shitty, but for Judy this was some incomprehensible sort of corporate structure that only she had the power to devise and understand. </div>
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Our instructor soon seemed ready to step in. Not really a step I guess more like a hobble or stagger. "Judy" he began, "it is our job to influence our co-workers as to do the very best we can as a team". This remark didn't change Judy's outlook as she shot back, " I actually try not to influence others and if they are influenced then they need to mind their own Goddamed business". </div>
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As the afternoon meandered on, more and more gems of wisdom came from Judy and the instructor even tried to compliment her by calling her feelings "passionate and fiery" but Judy seemed uncomfortable by the wording and looked like she may have been filing a sexual harassment charge inside her head. </div>
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As the meeting eventually came to a close, with little accomplished other than most of us learning of Judy's favorite do it yourself rash ointment recipe when contracting a skin infection from a pet pig, Judy then seemed quiet as if she wanted to explain something, something that didn't involve rashes or pigs, or even iced tea. </div>
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"I know I can be loud and I get off topic" she started "It's only because I guess I feel that no one has ever really heard me." Soon everyone seemed to take a sincere interest in what Judy was saying. " I am loud to be heard, I tell stories and facts to seem interesting" and I guess I am stubborn and bull headed because I just don't trust people. I never really had a chance to you know? No one ever wanted to be nice to me or be a friend, so I just kinda gave up and did my own thing and said whatever the hell I wanted to". </div>
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A girl that had been so quiet during the entire meeting turned to Judy and said, "Hey, my girlfriend and I are going to grab a drink with some friends after work and we would love it if you join us"?</div>
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With the beginning of tears in her eyes Judy looked up and calmly said, "I appreciate the offer but I am not really into your lifestyle" And with that our meeting was adjourned. </div>
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You know that feeling you get when a mentally challenged person gives you a hug or screams in your face for no reason whatsoever? That feeling that something is wrong and there's nothing you can do to stop it? That's the feeling that remains in my workday, from beginning to end, courtesy of a semi-retarded, man-child of a co worker named Monty.<br />
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One can spot Monty a mile away due to the headphones strapped to his face that he wears for the larger portion of our workday. It should be noted that the headphones are not actually attached to an audio device, but rather appear to serve as a fashion forward accessory for the mentally challenged, much like the character of "Warren" the handi-capable brother of Cameron Diaz in the movie "There Something about Mary"<br />
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Monty begins his day by usually having a coughing or sneezing fit to the point of it sounding like a rape is occurring somewhere in the office. After the phlegm and snot-fest has died down around 10:30 A.M., it time for about an hour of maniacal random laughter. "Hey Monty, whats so funny?" we ask, and its usually something worth peeing your pants over like someone added an extra vowel to the name of a town in Hawaii or a cat or dog that is riding a bike or surfboard. Serious comedy gems that should not be missed.<br />
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About two years ago Monty contacted me via Facebook and started constantly texting me. At first the texts were harmless, and then out of nowhere some crazy random thought would pop up on my phone screen. <br />
MONTY: hey wat u doin? ME: workin MONTY: duz everyone h8 me? ME: ummm, well,,,,no, I guess not MONTY: ok gr8. Hey tonight I think I am going to go out and fuck. ME: ??? MONTY: Yeah, I have sex with older women for money and have even let a few guys blow me. I just don't know how to tell my dad about some of this stuff. Sometimes it all get to be a little overwhelming and I think about hurting myself. <br />
ME: okay,,,gotta go. P.S. please don't kill yourself. MONTY: LOL, ,OK. Hey, I'm thinking about getting a miniature Doberman Pinscher, you know a Min-Pin.<br />
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I swear to God, this is the text convo I had that day with Monty. I started ignoring his texts after having been granted access to this little slice of craziness. The next morning I woke up to a text from Monty that read: R U NAKED? This is the point at which I quit talking to Monty altogether.<br />
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Dealing with Monty in a professional environment is much like watching a wildlife nature special on the Discovery Channel. At first it's somewhat cute and lighthearted. The baby gazelle stumbles around trying to find its way and getting into mischief. Things get more serious as the gazelle ventures out into the real world on its own and real world problems start coming into view. You start to realize this aint no Disney cartoon. Then shit gets real and all Hell breaks lose. Some crazy ass Lion comes out of nowhere, pouncing on the gazelle and ripping into its chest cavity to gorge on it's still beating heart. <br />
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All the while you know something sickening and crazy is lurking for the gazelle, you still tell yourself. no, no no, surely the gazelle has learned not to venture alone on to the savanna. But then it does and it gets it ass murdered, and you say to yourself; well I guess you kinda had it coming.<br />
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A prime example of the above behavior pattern is demonstrated regularly for Monty at our team meetings. You know there is some crazy shit brewing in his head, but you just keep hoping he keeps it there. <br />
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Keeping things subtle, appropriate and constructive is not how Monty rolls. Our meeting began with Monty asking a Hispanic co-worker if the reason she had a tattoo between her thumb and index finger was because she was involved in gang activity related to perhaps the Crips or Bloods. <br />
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Halfway though the meeting Monty begins getting louder and verbally abusive and is asked by a female co-worker if he can please lower his voice. Monty responded to this request by hopping atop the boardroom conference table and screaming "don't talk to me like that". The meeting was adjourned early so that each team member could visit our Human Resource Office to fill out an incident report that detailed an hour filled with Monty's song and dance of anger mixed with racist inquiries.<br />
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Around 2 pm all the sitting at his desk has become too much for Monty and really gets his dogs to barking. Monty takes this opportunity to remove his shoes and socks at his desk and begin a half hours worth of scratching and digging at his fugly hobbit-like feet as the co-workers around him are treated to the smell of ham and rotten eggs mixed with the alcohol continuing to seep out his pores.<br />
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After all the inappropriate and borderline criminal behavior that goes reported, my employer sees fit to continue to have Monty work among the rest of us as on a daily basis. "But he threatened to rape my asshole" we plead to our HR rep. The rep will usually just giggle, roll his eyes and insinuate we were probably asking for it.<br />
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So we are forced to endure the craziness. On a positive note though, Monty finally did get his Min-Pin, several of them actually. They made a beautiful prairie skirt.<br />
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<br /><div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-38447219484419028852013-12-21T12:37:00.000-08:002013-12-24T00:24:50.456-08:00I Pitched a Tent at Rainbow RanchI had the opportunity recently to take a weekend campitng trip that I had arranged for some much needed rest and relaxation. <br />
After being under a bit of stress it was either a camping trip or a faked addiction to heroin for admittance to a methadone clinic.<br />
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I had made up my mind to visit a gay campground, somewhere that might have activities and social interaction for gay and lesbians that enjoy the outdoors. After a quick Google search I hit paydirt with Rainbow Ranch. I was impressed at what a perfect name it was for a gay campground but nervous that it was not far from Waco, Texas. Waco is the world capitol of crazy cults and compounds that ususally come to fiery ends complete with raids operated by the US government. <br />
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Regardless of my fear of being abducted and forced to live as a sister-wife, I booked my trip. My friends asked what campground I was going to be staying at and I replied "Rainbow Ranch". Smirks and snickers soon became common place as I announced the name of the campground. I was quick to lurch into a well deserved hissy fit and insist Rainbow Ranch was in fact a real place and that "NO, they did NOT have rivers of glitter and pink unicorns that trotted to the beat of Cher songs!"<br />
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It didn't help when I would show my friends pictures of the campground, most of which were of the parties and social events that included either princess themed dinners or overtly masculine military style dance parties. "It's just a thing they do once in a while" I told them. "There is plenty of nature and fresh air and swimming and just laying around doing nothing. It's just what I need."<br />
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The day before I left for the campground I called the grounds office to make sure my spot was still reserved. I was given information for my space by a very nice older lady, at least I think it was a lady and informed that a campground potluck was set for the evening I was arriving and that I was invited. I thought that a potluck sounded really nice and would be a nice way to meet other people. I picked up some cookies from the grocery store bakery for the potluck and headed out. <br />
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The first indication that things were not going to go so well on this trip was the fact that the campground itself was an hour past Waco. Waco is not really the cultural capitol of Texas so I did not intend to make any stops. I drove past pastures and abandoned pickup trucks until I came to a desolate little haven of burnt woodland with a sign hanging next to the road announcing the entrance to Rainbow Ranch. <br />
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The campground itself was next to a lake that I soon found out had not been "zoned for swimming". There was an above ground swimming pool but I sadly learned it as well was not at the moment "zoned for swimming." <br />
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I quickly set up my tent and began to read when I noticed a middle-aged, somewhat stocky but attractive gentleman fishing near the pier. My first reaction was shock that the lake had actually been "zoned for fishing" and then of curiosity about this handsome stranger in his cute fishing attire. <br />
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I decided to casually walk over to the dock, where I would sit and read next to where the man was fishing. That was my plan to entice this man, sit and read. This plan was genious. <br />
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I soon noticed that the fisherman had a dog who would splash around giddily in the shore of the lake as the fisherman went about his tasks. It was a serene sight with the handsome man and his dog fishing in the sunset on the shore of the lake. As I am not a dog person I knew this would not be a problem as after we had fallen in love I could just ask that the dog be put down. If he loved me he'd do it. <br />
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As I sat against the pier with the sunlight painting the side of my face, I seductively would make eye contact when the man would look my way. It sounds romantic but as I had forgot my glasses in the tent, it was more like I was awkwardly staring in a way that said I might be crazy, or that I was in severe need of cataract surgery. It was during this creepster version of peekaboo that he finally yelled out in a masculine and powerful voice, "How's it going?" I replied with I'm good thanks for asking, how bout you? As he turned to walk towards me that's when I saw them. Both of them. Breasts. Yes, they were covered under a Khaki Bass Pro button down and looked as though they were being held down like they were middle-eastern housewives with a penchant for sassy backtalk. Yet, there they were. "Sure is a nice day we're having" the fisherperson bellowed. "yes it is" was my reply. And just like that, my fantasy of a hot fisherman was doused with a splash of reality. That reality was in the form of a 60 year old post menopausal lesbian. A lesbian with a very sexy haircut, had that haircut been on the head of George Clooney. This is the official moment I became invested in the upkeep of my vision. <br />
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I walked back to my tent and remembered the potluck. I thought it best to take a shower as all that sitting and reading had really made we work up a sweat. <br />
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As seven o'clock I made my way over to the campground community center, which in gay campground fashion had been outfitted with a mirrored disco ball, giant speakers hoisted on top of Roman Columns and enough glitter to make even Lady Gaga ponder the thought that it may be a just a tad over the top. Of course the phrase "over the top" means something totally different at a gay campground. <br />
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As I entered the doorway, I was met by a stick-thin circuit party looking boy with the word bottom written appropriately enough across his backside. I immediately assumed he had bought these shorts online because there was no way in hell a store within a 100 mile radius of Waco, TX was selling this item. <br />
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I introduced myself and told the man-boy that I was given instructions to bring a food item for the potluck. I held out two huge cartons of the bakery cookies. The response I received was: Ahhhh, wellllll, hmmmmm. The pondering and confusion on his part explained the errant fashion choice he had made in dressing for this occasion. <br />
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Well sweetie, see,,this is a private party. He whispered the words "private party" as to not embarass me in front of anyone, even though we were the only two people in the vicinity. <br />
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"Well I just assumed after the park ranger told me to bring a food item and invited me to the event and that I was welcome." I tried to explain the situation as best I could. "YEAH, uh huh, I see....NO it's a private event" he whispered private event again as though a line of people were behind us and I was so embarassed to have made such a mistake. I was now seriously beginning to worry that the half dressed man before me had mistaken the event for a Presidential fund raiser or the Annual Metropolitan Museum of Art Gala as to assume there was a level of importance to a potluck guest list at a run-down gay campground sitting adjacent to a toxic lake in the Texas backwoods. <br />
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I decided to say thank you and leave it at that. Even at the shittiest campground in the world, I cannot be a part of the "in" crowd. As luck would have it I was assigned by the park ranger, otherwise known as the head lesbian dressed in camouflage, to pitch my tent in space number 32. Space number 32 was exactly 75 feet from the community center, where right at this moment the worlds most exclusive social event was now starting. <br />
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I lay in my tent devouring cookies and washing them down with lukewarm beer,this being my dinner as I had expected to be partaking of gay potluck delicacies. <br />
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The party was really starting to ramp up now and the giant speakers had been moved outside and were pumping out jet engine level dance tunes. I decided to try to sleep and put in my earplugs. The earplugs didn't seem to help and the music was only getting louder. As mad as I was because of the noise, it was kinda hard to be upset while listenting to Abba, Dolly, Cher and Madonna who were being remixed into a collage of excitable dance songs being blasted into my face. <br />
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I was about ready to get up to complain when a techno version of "Dancing Queen" began to play. "OH I LOVE THIS SONG" I thought. Fifteen minutes later, enough was enough. I crawled out of my tent and stomped the 40 paces over to the community building. When I entered I was astonished at what I found. There was no crowd of fun loving gays, only the circuit boy dancing by himself and holding glowsticks under a mirrored disco ball. Apparently the party had been over for about an hour but he had continued to entertain himeself with sassy gay dance anthems. <br />
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I apologize for entering the restricted, guests only area and kindly asked if he could turn the decibel level down to say the equivalent of maybe a series of screeching jets breaking the sound barrier into supersonic booms. "OK, sweetie, I'll be sure to do that" he said,,"You'd better go cause this is kinda a private.....well you know." Was he serious? Was I being punked? Was Ashton Kutcher going to jump from behind the penis ice sculpture and scream "WE GOT YOU, WE GOT YOU GOOD, YOU JUST GOT PUNKED BITCH!" Alas this did not happen. I left the circuit boy dancing under the disco ball, apparently turning down the music was not the first priortiy in this matter. I crawled back into my tent and entually found my slumber as a reggae version of "I Will Survive" gently lulled me to sleep.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-59327797381781809352013-06-09T13:08:00.000-07:002013-06-09T23:42:26.849-07:00Peace, Love and Misunderstanding<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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In third grade I asked my friend how babies were born. I honestly don't know why I asked, it wasn't like I would ever want any or be in a position to possibly create one, regardless I was curious. He told me that a woman and a man go in the bedroom and put their metals together. I didn't ask any further questions and for the next two years I just assumed my parents were created much like the action hero Iron Man. Later, I would have an AHA moment in realizing he was saying "middles" and not "metals". Thus began my life as witness to the misconceived. <br />
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A few months ago my friends Nicole, Pam and I were taking a day trip to San Antonio to a restaurant that is a favorite of mine. I like them so much that I "liked" them on my Facebook account and they sent me a text for a free appetizer. Got that? If you liked them on Facebook,you got a free appetizer. Easy enough to understand for your run of the mill ten year old, complicated quantum physics like science for Nicole. <br />
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Pam and I explained to Nicole that if she "liked" this restaurant on Facebook, she would get a free appetizer and then we would all get to share it. When we explained this, Nicole's response was "why would we get it for free?" "Because you liked it on Facebook" I replied. Nicole cocked her head to the side like a bewildered Labrador retriever and we followed up on the explanation. "They give you a free appetizer when you like them on facebook, we would all share the appetizer, after you have done this." Still confused Nicole continued with her inquiry into this mystery "why would we all get it?" she asked. We wouldn't all get it I explained, I was now somewhat perplexed and losing my patience with having to say the say thing over and over. "we would all just share the appetizer after you have liked them on Facebook. We don't want to order three appetizers, so we will just share yours." "It's free for me,,why?" she asked. "GODAMMIT Nicole" I was officially raising my voice. "Fucking because you liked it on Facebook that is why." She looked down for a bit, which was probably not the best thing to do, as she was the one driving us to San Antonio. A few seconds passed and in my mind I was saying 'don't you dare ask again, Nicole, don't you do it. To her credit she did wait a few moments and timidly responded with "I just don't see why we all are going to get the appetizer." Pam and I looked at each other. I began a tirade of rants and spewed threats for about 4- 5 minutes, until I just tired myself out. Pam being the level headed and calm one in this group took over. "Look honey, don't be embarrassed by what I am about to do. I am going to explain this to you like I would a second grader. If you go onto the restaurant's Facebook page and click like, they will give you a free appetizer. Maybe a chips and queso, maybe sliders,,,you get the idea. You would get that appetizer for free at the restaurant. We would all take a bite of it, otherwise known as sharing. sound good honey?" Nicole nodded her head, but as I sat there steaming, I knew that crazy hippy still didn't know what the hell we were talking about. <br />
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Confusion and Misunderstanding seem to now be a normal part of my day. I have a friend who I now know very well and we get along great, but when I first met him I was enamored. Daniel is absolutely gorgeous and I was in awe of his physical beauty. Seriously I found myself at a loss for words. I would stammer and trip over sentences as if I were playing Jodi Foster's role of Nell, from the movie "Nell". <br />
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I should have said things like "It's very nice to meet you." Instead I puked out something that sounded like "me like you face, I choke you and is good?" I didn't really want to choke him,what was I talking about. stupid idiot, get it together. He's just a man.......a drop dead gorgeous God-like man,whose eyes I could swim in for days. I would continue this awkward fascination upon several meetings to follow. Each time I opened my mouth to speak or stared at him like a crazed stalker it came off as if I wanted him to be a personal sex slave and live in my basement. For the record that was not the intention, no harm ever came to Daniel and to this day he is free to come and go as he pleases without the fear of physical restraint. Does that mean I can't have a life size doll of him , complete with hair samples and fingernail clippings? No it does not. <br />
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A recent attempt to communicate and to understand came straight from the heart. This attempt was filled with good intentions but fell like a stone. A stone in a lake of awkward creepiness.<br />
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I tend to be a very emotional person. I even watch those YouTube videos that show military reunions or unlikely animal friends that have recovered from serious injury, just for the sheer pleasure of getting a good cry on. Feel free to try this yourself by adding in a pint of Ben and Jerry's and you will know what my Friday nights consist of. <br />
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At work , I had recently found out that Dixie, our Administrative Assistance had lost her father. We had all signed a card for her and I don't come into contact with Dixie on a regular basis so I assumed providing grief counseling by myself would not be needed. <br />
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We were having a potluck a week after her father died and I was looking for the meeting room in which we were to dine. I spotted Dixie in one of the kitchens in a separate wing of our building and asked her where the room was located. She gave quick and concise directions to our room. I should have said thank you and continued on my way, but something inside me, definitely not common sense, said "Kyle, stay, stay and ask about your coworkers dead daddy". So I did. I offered a quick condolence and explained that I was sorry for her loss. "Thank you very much." she said. This is the part of the story, where I should now be walking away. "NOT SO FAST" the voice in my head said. "Really dive into this persons loss and continue with an uncomfortable situation for her. "I just know it must have been a huge loss and wanted to say again we were sorry to hear of it." "Yes,,,well,,thank you for that and I appreciate it." and she then intentionally broke eye contact with me. The rational side of me said, "this is where you turn and make footsteps in the reverse direction. Just leave while your have a tiny shred of respectability left." The sassy black lady inside of me said, "Back that thang up. Get on up outta there before you make a fool outta yourself." The menacing voice inside my head said, "Press on Kyle! Really make sure she knows you are concerned and sorry for her loss. Don't leave until you know she is ready to go on with her life!" In the next five minutes I am pretty sure I attempted to bear hug Dixie while singing the gospel song "Amazing Grace." I am now not allowed within 200 yards of Dixie, which make work tough sometimes.<br />
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I truly believe that for most people, this sea of life that we are in tends to be smooth sailing, for me it is that awkward moment when it is really quiet and your stomach sounds like a dying whale. <br />
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I have a friend named Kirstin, who I work with and she was born the year I graduated high school. <br />
While we do actually have a lot in common, memories of what we grew up watching on television are not one of them. <br />
I find myself often reminiscing of the TV shows I grew up with only to find a bewildered, unfamiliar and often disgusted look on her face. I recently spent a good 15 minutes trying to convince her that <em>BJ and the Bear</em> was not a gay porn title but an actual TV show in which a trucker traveled the country's highways in a red and white Kenworth K-100 cab over semi truck with his pet chimpanzee named Bear. BJ and Bear would get into a wide variety of shenanigans that often included getting mixed up in local crime and coming to the aid of a beautiful woman. <br />
Kirstin was not convinced a network would actually air such a show and I ended up having to send her a YouTube clip as proof this show existed. <br />
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The more I got to thinking of the premise of this show I often wondered how BJ kept from keeping the monkey from going on wild poo flinging binges, learning sign language that would result in Bear starting his own trucking company or simply taking that chance that Bear may one day go "ape-shit", attack BJ and tear off his face. In my opinion any one of these scenarios would have made a fine season cliffhanger.<br />
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In the early Eighties I would spend Saturday nights with my mom curled up on the couch watching <em>The Love Boat</em> ( I did not have a lot of fiends as a child), and even if I did I am sure I would have preferred watching <em>The Love Boat</em> with my mom. <br />
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The series was basically a string of B-list elderly actors who would stumble aboard a Princess Cruise bound for exotic locations while trying to rekindle their dying romance, or there was a string of B-list young actors who played the horny singles on the prowl for a one night stand that would turn into a meaningful long term relationship. <br />
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The Pacific Princess was a world away from the bass boat we kept in our driveway in rural Oklahoma and I could not get enough of that show. I later found out that that the actress who played the beloved Cruise Director Julie McCoy had a serious cocaine habit during the time the show was on, this would explain how she stayed so positive and perky around all those pathetic silver-haired seniors who had given up on their lives. <br />
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Following <em>The Love Boat</em> was a series called <em>Fantasy Island. Fantasy Island </em>was about a mysterious island where people could go to live out their fantasies. The show featured Ricardo Montalban as Mr. Roarke and his pet chimpanzee Tattoo. Okay,,,Tattoo was not actually a monkey, he was a little person with a thick accent that was also always getting into shenanigans and I had become so used to seeing this played out on <em>BJ and the Bear</em> that that is what he became in my mind. Tattoo's main job seemed to be to spot the plane that would bring the passengers to the island. After spotting the plane Tattoo would become overly excited and start screaming "dee plane, dee plane!" I am still not sure why air traffic control was a part of Tattoo's job description but he seemed to enjoy it,,,a little too much. <br />
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Ricardo Montalban was always a little too uppity for my taste and seemed to be a bit pervy and controlling when it came to the fantasies of other people. Montalban had also starred in a Chrysler Cordoba commercial in which he had described the interior of the car as having "rich Corinthinan leather" I think the car commercial is what really made me despise the actor the most. The distinguished thespian said these words in a way that, for me sounded like he was saying "bitch please!, your broke ass will never be able to afford this rich corinthian leather so just stick to that shitty Ford Pinto and we won't have any problems, you heard?" I hate to admit it but if he was thinking that he was right. The only time the words rich, Corinthian or leather came up in a conversation in our household we were most likely talking about Hershey's dark chocolate, the Bible or the freshly skinned buck my dad had just killed that was hanging off of my swing set in the backyard. <br />
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At a younger age I can remember watching <em>Sesame Street. </em>This is a show that is still running to this day and you may very well know the characters Big Bird, Oscar the Grouch and Bert and Ernie. <em>Sesame Street</em> of course centers on the goings on of furry puppets and at this same time my aunt and uncle were using these puppets as part of their youth ministry. My aunt and uncle would re-enact Bible stories with these characters and I can just remember being scared to death of what they were saying and what was happening. <br />
I have blocked a lot of this time out of my memory but I am pretty sure I can recall the Cookie Monster hanging off of a cross. While we are on this subject I don't think it was fair to use these characters as Jesus is probably not very cool with the relationship going on between Bert and Ernie. <br />
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There was also <em>The Electric Company</em> on at this time during the day, but we were not really urged to indulge in this show as there was a very wide range of ethnicity in the cast. <br />
I was also very unfamiliar with the urban settings in this program and occasionally you would see an actual mugging going on in the background. <br />
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Also for my viewing pleasure there was <em>Mr. Rogers Neighborhood</em>. <em>Mr. Rogers Neighborhood </em>was a show my mother hated. I think she hated it in a way that many adults now want to pull a knife on the children's show character Barney the Dinosaur. Instead of being overly zealous and and zany like Barney, Mr. Rogers appeared as if he had been given a very high dose of anti-anxiety medication. <br />
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The show was very slow moving and Fred Rogers although I am sure well meaning seemed to talk to his viewers as if they were mentally challenged or perhaps standing on the ledge of a 50 story building. After the seven minutes it took Rogers to say hello and welcome you to the show there was another fifteen minutes of just him taking off his shoes and putting on another pair. Whereas this was a prerequisite for me to even start kindergarten, Rogers went at this every day at a snails pace and you would often wonder if he had perhaps slipped into a mild coma during this part of the show. <br />
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This children's show also contained two things I hate; puppets and snobbishness. The puppets reigned over an imaginary kingdom called the Neighborhood of Make-Believe and had such names as King Friday XIII, Lady Elaine Fairchilde and Henrietta Pussycat. <br />
I got absolutely nothing out of this show unless you include nightmares as a childhood bonus.<br />
This show also featured a trolley that would travel around the Kingdom and toot it's arrival. I often imagined it was a locomotive that was carrying a mix of deadly weapons of mass destruction that would derail and destroy the Kingdom in a horrible chemical fire, but all it ever did was toot it's annoying arrival and assume made many a drug run to keep Rogers in stock of Lithium and Xanax. <br />
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These are just a few of the reasons I am who I am today. I hot mess of a man who can trace his disaster of a life to childhood TV shows and thinks that puppets are the source of all evil in the world today. I'm talking to you ELMO ! <div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-77925467764319054122012-09-02T19:04:00.000-07:002012-09-05T15:51:57.932-07:00Drugs,Drinks and Drama: My Mexico Vacation<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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We chose a cruise to Mexico as our summer vacation, my friend Peg and I. It was cheap,offered innumerable activities and was something neither of us had done before. <br />
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We researched our travel material and cruise instructions to be prepared and ready for a full week of fun. <br />
As I was reading the guide for embarking on the ship something caught my eye in the "NOT ALLOWED' category. Alcohol is not to be brought on board the ship. "WHAT?" This won't do I thought. How are people on vacation supposed to be relaxed and happy if it is not chemically induced? My heart began to beat a little faster and sweat formed on my brow. Is this what a panic attack feels like I wondered? <br />
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It sometimes takes days filled with confusion and procrastination for me to do something as simple as put a stamp on a letter and put it in the mailbox. When it came to devising a plan to sneak contraband onto a major cruise ship it took me 37 seconds. I emptied two water bottles of their contents, refilled them with rum, resealed the rim and stuck them in the covered portion of a pack of a dozen water bottles. <br />
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On the day of our embarkment Peg and I stopped for some rum to pour into our slushies from Sonic to enjoy while waiting in line for security. We were going to simply throw them away, but others had drinks in hand also so we continued to drink them. We arrived at the Xray Scanner and our luggage went through with no problem. They didn't even look inside Pegs' handbag. They didn't scan my pack of water. At the end of the scanner we were however instructed to take this water pack to a desk that had many people in line in front of it. Then it hit me,,,this was no ordinary desk, they were ripping open peoples beverage packs and shaking the bottles to check for bubbles. You were allowed to bring on water, but alcohol will produce a greater amount of bubbles. Those tricky bitches I thought. <br />
So I stood in line as Peg patiently waited for me on the sidelines. My pack was immediately ripped open and before you could say Jose Cuervo, the bloodhound senses of the security agent identified the two rum bottles in my water and threw them away. Peg was afraid to make eye contact with me while this was going on because she knew exactly what this meant for me. TOTAL DEVASTATION! I might as well have had my very own child ripped from my arms and given to a stranger never to be seen again. All the while my face had to emote a look that said "Why on earth are you discarding those bottles, it's just water,not alcohol, just water." <br />
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Peg could have had a human arm and a brick of cocaine in that handbag I thought, why didn't we just put them in there. It took a good 45 minutes to talk me down from the virtual ledge I had climbed and threatened to jump off of. In all reality this just meant I would be paying for alcohol on the ship but I would be paying $10 per drink. Sons of bitches. <br />
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The lack of contraband rum certainly didn't stop us from drinking,,,,a lot. On the second day Peg swore off drinking for the entire day to devote to relaxation and health. We agreed on this plan and I went off for a workout in the ship's gym only to arrive an hour and a half later to find Peg drunkenly passed out on the Promenade deck with a drink the size of a bowling ball in her hand. "Look my drink looks like the ship", she slurred as she showed me the container in the form of the very ship we were now on.. "Well it certainly is the size of one" I replied and immediately ordered a pina colada. <br />
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Our first port of call was an all inclusive resort on the Yucatan Peninsula that included sports, food, but most importantly alcohol. We hit the bar first and then began snorkeling. By lunch we were both pretty drunk, but for Peg it really doesn't take that much. I on the other hand can down a pony keg and still have room for shots. As we sat eating, Pegs side of the table was filled with pina coloda glasses and she knocked over her guacamole dish onto the cement below us. Our waiters were very efficient and immediately began to clean the mess. "gracias" I said. Peg also said gracias and followed it up with "Una mas margarita por favor".<br />
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We ended our day with swimming and dip in the resort hot tub where we struck up a conversation with a nice couple from Connecticut. We each continued to have drinks from the hot tub swim up bar. The only reason Peg had not fallen over is because she was floating. As I asked our friends about their home in the Northeast I noticed Peg swimming towards the bar and pulling herself up to ask for a shot of tequila. "NO Peg' I screamed,,interrupting our new friends from our conversation. Peg turned and looked at me and said "Shut up Kyle" She never told me to shut up so I thought it best to let the situation work out on it's own. <br />
I found Peg ten minutes later passed out in a lounge chair with a full shot of tequila in her hand. I quickly drank the tequila and roused Peg out of her coma like sleep.<br />
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As I brought her into the men's room we bonded over my supplying Peg with techniques on vomiting, I in one stall Peg in the other. Although I had no real reason to thrown up and couldn't if I wanted to for lack of a gag reflex, Peg made guttural moans and spastic panting noises from the other side of my stall. She exited the stall looking like Linda Blair during the pea soup scene from the exorcist, but claims to have not thrown up at all. Although you would think throwing up with my friend in a men's room would have been the most embarrassing part of our day, it was not. When we exited the stall we noticed a line of men waiting to use the stalls. God only knew what they thought when they heard me yelling "Try sticking three fingers in as far as you can, it might hurt but just try it, you will feel better when you're done". <br />
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The number one duty on our port of call the next day was at the local Pharmacy. I swear you can get anything in Mexico: drugs, guns, syphilis, it's all at your beck and call and for the most part all legal. Peg has a pain issue that can be debilitating and I have anxiety issues, plus I just really like Valium.<br />
First we asked for Vicodin or something like it. Our pharmacist who was about sixteen and knew very little English returned with a white box and said "this make the horseys no have pain and be very sleepy" Peg agreed this would be fine, I on the other hand am not sure if we had just bought horse tranquilizers. Our next request was for me and I asked for Valium, which they did have but was instructed you had to have a prescription. This did not seem to be a problem as the owner of the pharmacy was also a doctor who provided free of charge medical prescriptions next door. <br />
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We waited in what looked like what I imagine a cold war Soviet bomb shelter looks like until the doctor waived me into his office. There was a diploma or license of some sort on the doctor's wall. I am still not sure of its authenticity as the four year old that made it seemed to have colored outside the lines. <br />
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The conversation with my doctor went like this: Doctor: What you want?, Me: Valium, Doctor: you want 20 or 90?, Me: 90, and then I went next door and got Valium. <br />
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Why can't things work work like this in the U.S? No, in Mexico there is no HIPPA or FDA regulations or regard for your own safety in general, but it took 15 minutes and did not require an act of legislation and personal note from the Surgeon General as it would have back in the U.S.<br />
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Our horse tranquilizers and lifetime supply of Valium made it back on the ship with no problem, but I am pretty sure I saw a woman being arrested for bringing a trial size bottle of tequila on board. <br />
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As we finished our trip our entrance back into the U.S. was through customs and since I had bought the pain pills and anti-anxiety medicine either over the counter or with a prescription (Mexican) but still legal, I wrote down on my customs slip that I had these items with me. My thought was that it was better to be upfront and honest about what I was bringing back than risk being sent to prison. As I was carrying the drugs Peg made it though just fine, I on the other hand was escorted to a holding room in the U.S. Customs office. <br />
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Well your going to jail Kyle, this is it. This is how it ends. The holding room was full of families that had committed the crimes of bringing back unauthorized liquor,guns, Cuban cigars and the like. One by one each person left and I was alone in that room. I mentally prepared myself for nightly ass rapings and thought it best to quickly become someones' bitch, for I would stand a better chance of surviving in prison. Maybe it wouldn't be that bad, maybe a huge lesson for all would be learned as in "The Shawshank Redemption",,,oh wait I think there was an ass raping in that movie. I was on the verge of tears and if I ever needed a Valium it was now. I had now been in the room for over an hour, were they prepping my uniform and cell?,,,,,what was going on? <br />
My name was then called and I was handed my drugs and was told by the Customs agent "well you are free to go, it looks like you did everything correctly". Wait, no arrest? no prison? no ass rapings? I was free to go and go I did, but in the back of my mind I thought to myself couldn't they have just Googled that? I mean wasn't it their job to know these things? <br />
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As Peg and I reunited in the customs visiting area we exited the port having learned three very important lessons. <br />
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1. Peg can't handle her alcohol. <br />
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2. Horse tranquilizers are not as powerful as you might think, but they will make your mane very silky. <br />
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3. The best vacations are the ones you have to take medication to forget. <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDZvHAWBEN5VkL0gjD6U_nlcmGIr8A5d_g_wY_eMQx-l97_353Js25f7wso2yowGKPTPCtQUoVTpmhWrEpO_tzR16wYCVRI8HmwE5pg9BYkzOciusn3uhx04mw2vRZJapTRRBdR9dWWlPV/s1600/panda+bus.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDZvHAWBEN5VkL0gjD6U_nlcmGIr8A5d_g_wY_eMQx-l97_353Js25f7wso2yowGKPTPCtQUoVTpmhWrEpO_tzR16wYCVRI8HmwE5pg9BYkzOciusn3uhx04mw2vRZJapTRRBdR9dWWlPV/s320/panda+bus.jpg" width="320" /></a>I remember once at a party we were playing the game "Have you ever?", when someone asked me, Have you ever become a member of the mile high club. My response was "does it have to have been with another person?" The looks of confusion and disgust that followed can pretty much sum up my experiences with travel. They have been a source of confusion, disgust as well as a myriad of other emotions that would have made the Titanic Voyage seem like an uneventful pleasure cruise. </div>
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Most of my earlier travel was with my friend David. Travelling with David was what I am assuming travelling with Osama Bin Laden would have been like. You never knew what catastrophes were around the next corner and you never knew if you would make it home alive. <br />
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On a flight to Hawaii, David believed the passengers directly in the seats in front of us were only there to talk about him in secret, take up precious leg room and tilt back their seats as far back as they could possibly go. As an outlet for his rage David insisted on grinding his knees into the back of their chairs to make their flight as uncomfortable as possible. "David, I don't think they are talking about you" I offered. "I don't think they can even speak English" "Oh they are talking about me, I can tell" he responded" "And I don't like it one bit" his answer was obviously meant for our fellow passengers to hear as he raised his voice. <br />
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Safely on the ground, having avoided any nasty Air Marshall incidents, we arranged for a taxi to take us to our hotel. As luck would have it, our taxi driver was not able to speak English either and seemed a bit angry from the moment we got into the cab. At one point our driver made a stop for gasoline at a convenience store, yet never pumped any gas, he did however return to the car with a tall canned beverage wrapped in a brown paper bag. Best not to ask questions I thought and ignored the whole Mothers Against Drunk Driving public service announcement going on before my eyes. <br />
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When we arrived at our hotel, David exited the car and went to our drivers window to pay the fare. As I watched from a bench it appeared the driver was arguing with David about something and David seemed very confused as to what the problem was. "I'm sorry I don't know what you want:" David repeated as the driver made a series of pointing motions and shook his head. <br />
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The verbal abuse from our driver continued until David was on the verge of tears and just handed over his entire wallet for the man to fish out as much money as he deemed acceptable for the fare. Enough was enough at this point and I walked over to the situation at hand, took the wallet from our driver, handed it back to David and screamed RUN!. <br />
I urge anyone who may be reading this to take this advise and apply it to your own lives. When life hands you a situation that is uncomfortable, just run away from it and everything will work out for the better. I repeat, running away from your problems is ALWAYS the best option. <br />
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While in Hawaii, I thought it best to discontinue the use of taxis and bought both of us a day pass on the local city trolley system. <br />
Now, Hawaii attracts a lot of Asian tourist and this was the case as we boarded our first trolley.<br />
We were in the middle of a very long line and as we boarded it was becoming apparent that there was no room for many more people. <br />
I quickly found my seat at the back of the bus as David stayed at the front, thinking it best to attempt to strike up a friendship with our driver this time around. to ward off any negativity remaining from his first go round with are taxi driver. "Sure is crowded" said David to our Trolley Captain. "You are Goddamned right it is crowded ! It's all these little Japanese fuckers coming over here and crowding us out is what it is!" responded our Trolley Captain.<br />
I heard this from the back of the bus because it was coming in loud and clear over the intercom speakers. <br />
David continued this conversation by saying "It has been my experience that they are all rude and pushy and I will have you know that they were saying horrible things about me on the plane ride over here." <br />
"Well they sure as hell don't respect authority" our driver stated "Those little fuckers can just go back to where they came from if I had any say about it" he continued. <br />
Not only did he have any say in it, I thought, but he was saying it in stereo for the entire bus to hear. <br />
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I wanted to warn David that his remarks were being picked up by the Trolley Captains microphone but decided it was out of my hands at this point. <br />
I shared my bench seat with an older tourist and reached over to whisper "I don't think you are rude or pushy and I regularly enjoy a hearty meal at my local Panda Express" I whispered in her ear, trying to ease the racial tensions that had evolved in the last five minutes. <br />
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People were still crowding into the Trolley, and there was just no more room for more passengers. <br />
As if he was the newly appointed President of the Honolulu Transportation Commission, David took matters into his own hands. Throwing his hands in the air and with a horrible cartoonish Asian accent he began yelling out "THERE NO MORE ROOM", "WE NOT WANT ANY MORE OF YOU", " YOU LEAVE NOW."<br />
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Just so you can get an idea of how uncomfortable all this was to me, let me just say I was one of three white people on this trolley and the other two were doing a racist comedy skit directly from the 1940's for the entire crowd of Asian tourists to enjoy. <br />
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To reinforce his displeasure David then began moving his hands in a back and forth pushing motion and screaming "SHOO!" "SHOO, YOU NOT GET ON BUS"<br />
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Oh my God, their grandfathers invaded this island and he was singlehandedly setting back race relations 75 Years I thought to myself. The looks that I was getting said to me that the crew of the ENOLA GAY themselves would have been more welcome than we were right now. David, unaware that he had been heard by the remaining 100 bitter and angry passengers made his way to the back of the bus to take his seat by me. <br />
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As he sat down a huge grin formed and he reached over to me to say "this is so exciting, I can't wait to get to Pearl Harbor." <br />
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<br /></div><div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-77061281956776146872012-01-12T23:51:00.000-08:002012-01-13T22:08:23.891-08:00I am not afraid to slap you across your whore face<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhqd_Bihho4mHEEVs0b2KsApq5Cl7rifp6jxLPtE23anrroN3yuEPhkIYP8J3Ry9mnGt8DwWDCx4yooRXEY6kb37PMNH8AVTQkzLVv5IXJ9sw6xsNPN9lKPfS0MOAxIPshzaEWhul1lmaB/s1600/art.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 265px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5697021211630524594" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhqd_Bihho4mHEEVs0b2KsApq5Cl7rifp6jxLPtE23anrroN3yuEPhkIYP8J3Ry9mnGt8DwWDCx4yooRXEY6kb37PMNH8AVTQkzLVv5IXJ9sw6xsNPN9lKPfS0MOAxIPshzaEWhul1lmaB/s320/art.jpg" /></a> In this life, one thing I hold extremely dear are my friends. As I get older I realize how important these people are in my life. I also realize how incredibly unique these people are to me. On any given day the compassion that goes out to them can range from comforting someone who has just lost their grandmother, to screeching the threat "I AM NOT AFRAID TO SLAP YOU ACROSS YOUR WHORE FACE".<br /><br />Yes we sometimes get on that bipolar train ride of emotions that can quickly turn into a huge train wreck, but we always know that when all the shouting is over, you've still got someone in your corner.<br /><br />I'm taking this opportunity to tell a few people in my life how much they mean to me. Yes it goes without saying, but it shouldn't. If you love someone, you should tell them. Yes I know that sounds sweet enough to contract diabetes just from reading it, so to be fair, for each person I acknowledge, I am also going to tell them something that I find extremely annoying about them. So we are all winners here!<br /><br />We will start with my friend Pam. When Pam drinks, the volume goes up. WAY UP! Deaf people in China know that Pam is drunk. Pam really doesn't drink all that much, but when she does she is all in. A few months ago, we were doing two of my favorite things in the whole world; drinking and mocking people on Home and Garden network. (don't believe me that it's fun? have a couple of shots and turn on House Hunters) Anyway midway through the show, Pam looked over at me and yelled "I AM NOT LOSING THIS BUZZ". OK I thought, nobody is trying to steal it from you so just settle down. "REALLY, I FEEL GOOD, I AM NOT LOSING THIS BUZZ" so now I was just getting a little scared and thought it best to let her know there was a whole box of Franzia in the refrigerator,,,so no one has to die OK?<br />I am not saying it isn't fun, I am just saying Howler monkeys have a better indication of how to use their inside voices than a drunk Pam does.<br /><br />Although Pam can be loud, she certainly knows how to listen. I don't think I have ever met anyone who does it better. I can rely on her to be my sounding board and even better than that she just takes it all in. She offers sound advice that comes straight from the heart. She never makes you feel sorry for yourself and you always end the conversation feeling better for having it. Everyone should have a Pam in their life. Sometimes all we need is for someone to hear us.<br /><br />My friend Jenifer has an issue and that issue is animation. If there was such a thing as an animation intervention, I would sign her ass up for it faster than you can say Finding Nemo.<br />Don't even think of inviting her to a movie, unless it has "Disney Presents" in the title.<br />I did recently convince her to watch "The Color Purple". Everything was going fine until about halfway through she leaned over and asked "when do they turn into singing mermaids"? It's closer to the end I said.<br /><br />The thing about Jen is that once she takes you in, you really have to be the one to screw it up. She will always be there. Through the good, the bad, the animated and the live action, she is a friend you know is for life.<br />We are talking about a woman who garnered over $2000 in groceries, money and gifts for a needy family, only to have them spit in her face. I would have taken that $2000 and paid someone to burn down what little they had left, but Jen took it in stride and continues to give.<br />Whether it is delivering meals to homeless or volunteering at her local animal shelter with gifts of food or to simply walk the dogs, she truly gives of herself.<br />The failings of humanity have never scarred her.<br />I give her the irrational and complicated from my own life and she unravels it for me, offers a solution and restores my faith in the human race.<br />I am here to say I absolutely love the sense of compassion and value she adds to my life.<br />Somewhere out there, some poor, some undervalued, some that have been thrown away by society have her to thank for restoring just a little bit of hope back into a hopeless world.<br /><br />Barnicole is a girl who is 15 years younger than me. It's an odd pairing really. A gay man entering middle age and a mid twenties hippy chick. It somehow works, but not without it's frustrations.<br />Barnicole can best be described as a loose cannon of feelings. She expresses herself through art and a myriad of external behaviors.<br />We were once swimming at a party and someone mentioned the movie "Beauty and the Beast". This being one of Barnicoles favorite movies felt the need to express her joy for this Disney classic by performing the entire soundtrack at the top of her lungs while doing a form of aqua ballet in the swimming pool.<br />I stood in the corner of the pool and thought "Please God, make it stop". The singing went on and on. "Where is the off button?" I screamed.<br />She announces when she has to fart. ( I prefer to be left in the dark about this information)<br />She occasionally chooses a word at random and uses that word incessantly and to the point you want to beat the life out of her with a Thesaurus. Her word lately has been FANCY. "These crackers are fancy" "Hey there fancypants" "Oh you are using the fancy napkins?"<br />I can't take any more and scream "I FANCY SLAPPING YOU ACROSS YOUR WHORE FACE!"<br /><br />As annoying as she can be with these small things, she is also an incredibly caring and talented person who has brought a lot of happiness to my troubled soul. Barnicole is the first person in the room to wrap her arms around you for a hug if she senses you are upset.<br />I see in her what I want to see more of in me. A strong, happy and courageous individual who doesn't just exist but actually lives her life.<br /><br />Barnicoles art is especially intriguing. What she does is take negative and depressing headlines from the newspaper, puts it on canvas and paints over it with the beauty she sees in the world.<br />You can still see the headlines but they are all covered with what I believe to be the inner beauty she exudes. The finished product is beautiful and amazing, much like she is to me.<br /><br />I love my friends, they make me not want to give up on this world. They make me not want to burn down needy peoples homes.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-4132592985156384642011-12-09T09:03:00.000-08:002011-12-09T23:54:57.855-08:00Death becomes her<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiSJ8ehUScYKAAurXbDPb_eogr4IBhlKjmISXVGpk2cwY_2pdEYCIjGWBq8nLhJTW_a8VkG_4VOKj2th3gRi17YLkoQUdBXZ6jRpTM131tUoP6b6fEgVoNpfPDht-P6En6yYlPP9HJSvivx/s1600/death.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 284px; height: 177px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiSJ8ehUScYKAAurXbDPb_eogr4IBhlKjmISXVGpk2cwY_2pdEYCIjGWBq8nLhJTW_a8VkG_4VOKj2th3gRi17YLkoQUdBXZ6jRpTM131tUoP6b6fEgVoNpfPDht-P6En6yYlPP9HJSvivx/s320/death.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5684179975817846338" /></a><br /><br />I don't have a tremendous amount of experience with death. The experiences I have had in dealing with it have the results of an I Love Lucy episode. <br /><br />Several years ago when I went to church, I was asked to be a pallbearer. For the most part this endeavour went pretty smooth. It was people I knew, but quite honestly were not that close with. My first encounter with death on a more personal level came when my best friends grandmother passed away. Let me just say death does not seem to affect me in an emotional way. Why? I honestly don't know, but I don't cry about it, even when dealing with it first hand. Yes, I have a heart you smart ass! I just don't use it that often. <br /><br />Getting back to my friends grandmother, David had asked me to go to the funeral home with him to view the body before the funeral. David was a nervous wreck, I on the other hand was probably a little drunk at this point of the evening. In fact I know I was having just learned we were going to a funeral pre show. <br /><br />We stepped into the viewing room and both took slow steps toward the casket. David seemed to be upset. I put my hand on David's back for support. Oh not emotional support, I was just trying not to fall down from all the jagermeister I had downed. <br /><br />I took a seat on the front pew and David made his way to the open casket to view his grandmother for the first time since he had learned of her death. About thirty seconds into the viewing, David let out a very loud sob, threw his hand in the air and proceeded to literally run out of the viewing room. <br /><br />I sat on the front pew wondering what I should do. I slowly got up and approached the open casket. What came over me at the moment was pure amazement. The funeral home had made this old woman who had been sick and in the hospital into such a beautiful vision. She looked like she did when she was alive. I almost expected her to get up and run after David herself. Her hair was immaculate. I wanted to ask if they bothered to do both the front and back of the hair or just called it a day after styling the bangs. No one was going to see the back, right? <br /><br />A few moments passed and the overwhelming urge to touch her hand came over me. Would that be creepy? I wanted some sort of connection, to know this was real. OK, yes creepy, but I still wanted to do it. I reached my hand upwards and it rested on the casket. I moved it up over the top and then heard "are you okay sir?" it was the funeral director. "I saw your friend run out of here and he seemed very upset, just coming to check on you". I WASN'T TRYING TO TOUCH THAT DEAD BODY, I wanted to scream. I'M NOT A FREAK YOU KNOW! (ironically I lived with the funeral director's daughter for a short time and did actually get to find out how the bodies were maintained, another story)<br />I backed up off the casket and after and uneasy goodbye with the director I made my way outside where David was having an emotional breakdown in the parking lot of the funeral home. After a few words of encouragement to David we had another shot of JAGER and ended up at an all you can eat chicken restaurant. His grandma would have liked it that way. <br /><br />I tried to avoid funerals as much as possible after the encounter with Davids grandmother but a few years later my cousin and his wife were killed by someone speeding through an intersection. It was a horrible car accident, which their three children survived. <br /><br />At the funeral each child was allowed to put something in the casket that reminded them of their father and mother. This cousin was always fun to be around and I remember him fondly. The middle child had to be asked to remove a can of beer from her fathers casket. That would have been so perfect, I thought to myself. <br /><br />Even though this was a close personal relative, I was again not overly emotional. Not that I wasn't sad but that is just my mode of operation. I had also been asked to be a pallbearer at this funeral, in which I would carry my cousins casket and six other men carried his wife's. <br /><br />I stood beside the casket ready to carry it out of the church building and I noticed a very attractive fellow pallbearer standing at my cousins wife's casket. Why does he look so familiar? I thought. And then it hit me. The night before I had been out clubbing and had met this hottie at a gay dance bar. That's who that is I thought, he is the hottie from the Silver Star Saloon (yes that is the actual name) that offered me Ecstasy. He was very cute and very mysterious from what I remember the night before. I didn't partake of any Ecstasy and that is probably why he moved on and disappeared the night before. Only to reappear here now at my cousins funeral as a fellow pallbearer. <br /><br />FATE? yes I thought. At this point it would have been good if reality had entered the room and slapped me severely across the face. And you would think that a double funeral for a close family relative would have done that anyway, but alas I saw this as an opportunity to try to make a move. <br /><br />How inappropriate would it be to slide across the top of the casket as if it were the General Lee and I was one of the Duke boys? "so you come here often?" I would ask,as my slide stopped right at his pallbearer station. He would laugh, I would laugh, we would embrace and he would go to rehab. Everyone around us would be happy that I had finally found love.<br /><br />Although I did notice some eye contact at the burial, in retrospect it was probably best that I had just remained at my cousins side and fulfilled my pallbearer duties. <br /><br />To this day, avoiding the urge to pick up a drug addicted skank whore at my cousins funeral remains one of my proudest moments. We all have to have something to be proud of you know!<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-76329786540565607162011-11-19T14:42:00.000-08:002011-11-19T15:43:13.400-08:00Sex doesn't always sell<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhThxPz7vrnvh2A2c_gjmCqg2qNam0oevpv1gkUKjxJzKPqWYEKK_MZ_qktFMqKQHfBxIPsBJ8r0FHbNiFymxetA4WbYzbbiwUFxTRuhQeqU5IEI77R8n0KH53xU25ybzkdatbJyCpivRfq/s1600/tmi.bmp"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 171px; height: 151px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhThxPz7vrnvh2A2c_gjmCqg2qNam0oevpv1gkUKjxJzKPqWYEKK_MZ_qktFMqKQHfBxIPsBJ8r0FHbNiFymxetA4WbYzbbiwUFxTRuhQeqU5IEI77R8n0KH53xU25ybzkdatbJyCpivRfq/s320/tmi.bmp" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5676841412844446018" /></a><br /><br /><br />I once had a roommate named Gloria. The first time I had met Gloria I was meeting her to rent a room in her house. She seemed professional, focused and completely normal in every way. She was friendly and had a good demeanor and seemed to naturally carry herself with an ease of confidence. I agreed to move in with Gloria and things went pretty well until I started discovering little things that seemed a bit odd. I knew Gloria had an issue with security in the house, in her own words "I found a dead body in my backyard when I was little". I on the other hand had found a dollar bill on the sidewalk when I was little. Don't make too much of it I told myself,,,people are not all the same. <br /><br />The paranoia continued to build in the house until one night I got a knock on my bedroom door. Gloria stood there shaking. Was it another body I wondered? I soon found out it was not, but Gloria proceeded to lead me into her room and look at the ceiling. What am I looking at I wondered. Gloria then pointed to a corner in the ceiling where a piece of plaster about an inch in circumference had cracked and fallen to the floor. "I think there is someone in the attic trying to drill their way into my room" she announced. NOT CRAZY I said to myself trying to cast away the urge to grab her myself and stuff her into the attic to prove there were no psychopathic serial killers with hand tools and a penchant for young ladies with panic disorders. <br />After reassuring Gloria she had a shitty plaster job and talking her down from the ledge for an hour I went to bed and tried to put it behind me. NOT CRAZY I said to myself, just ignore it. <br /><br />Well, a week went by and no other attempts had been made on her life so I thought we were golden. That is until I discovered her need for strangers to know about her insane tirades. We were on our way to the movies and we were picking up a new co-worker friend of Gloria's. Lacey stepped into the vehicle and after introducing myself found out Gloria had only known Lacey a short time and this was the first time they had really got the chance to speak outside of work. <br /><br />Lacey was new to the area, about 27 years old and already had 3 children, a strict conservative christian faith and what appeared to be a low tolerance for anything besides Jesus and kids. <br /><br />Upon learning of our new friends convictions the voice inside my head said "Hey Kyle, to each their own, live and let live." <br /><br />The voice inside Gloria's head said, "Hey Gloria, you should share with her your stories of inappropriate sexual encounters that have gone wrong." <br /><br />I am not sure if Gloria thought telling about her sexual trysts would endear her to her new friend or if it would make her appear hip and cool or maybe the voices in her head just demanded she do it. I don't know. <br /><br />I finished telling Lacey about where I had grown up and a little work history and general interests. As I finished, this seemed to be Gloria's cue to dive into a story about a first date she had been on in which the night had ended in a clumsy attempt at sexual intercourse in the front seat of her dates car. Gloria went into detail about the type of kissing involved, foreplay and even threw in a few details about the actual penetration, just so everyone knew exactly what point we were at in her story. <br /><br />Our new friend sat in the passenger seat feigning a semblance of interest into the dirty details of Gloria's sexcapades. I myself sat in the back seat behind Gloria feeling completely awkward in disbelief and shock as the true meaning of TMI was showcased before me. <br /><br />Gloria was completely non-chalant in concluding her story as if she was giving some sort of weather report. Come to think of it I think she did mention the words "moisture in the southern region at some point." <br /><br />As we sat in an uneasy silence, I just wanted to lean over to Lacey and whisper "I had nothing to do with that bat-shit crazy sex story you were just forced to listen to" Alas I could not do this and was forced to send Lacey apologetic glances in the passenger side rear view mirror. <br /><br />Before we reached our destination Gloria had dove into another story that ended with her revealing that she stalks her ex boyfriend and had at one point in their relationship actually lost a condom inside her vagina. Our new friend had her hand on the door handle of the car ready to leap out if by chance Gloria slowed to less than 10 mph. <br /><br />As our friend exited the car, I took her place in the front seat readying myself for a fresh gem concerning her reproductive system which I was bound to hear on the ride back home. <br /><br />I never heard from Lacey after that meeting. I am sure she spent the next six months showering and trauma counseling does leave little time for social occasions.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-44626479693947029702011-04-19T15:31:00.001-07:002011-04-19T22:26:39.161-07:00I was wondering why the frisbee was getting bigger… then it hit me.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVU5EMQ-01DjaCQIhiX_-BF4Ktu33Tqf7gByh3R5u0kOA4P5tfITZQ33KJexbiqWVZLBoi2Gw5a7iffUlBKxihJIv-w07l3uH-Apex1fuvEqYKbFhUmRTIZMFlUZG5qy12Sryba3Yopp06/s1600/stupd.bmp"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 225px; height: 225px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVU5EMQ-01DjaCQIhiX_-BF4Ktu33Tqf7gByh3R5u0kOA4P5tfITZQ33KJexbiqWVZLBoi2Gw5a7iffUlBKxihJIv-w07l3uH-Apex1fuvEqYKbFhUmRTIZMFlUZG5qy12Sryba3Yopp06/s320/stupd.bmp" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5597426561904635746" /></a><br /><br />I am as dumb as a box of hair. Oh don't feel sorry for me, this is something I have come to accept and live with. My stupidity and I actually get along very well and never seem to outgrow each other. The list of idiotic things I do and say grows alarmingly out of control with each passing year, or day to be honest. If I am lucky enough to make it to 80 years of age I am likely to be in an insane asylum or a full body cast due to the ridiculous things that go through my mind and that I act upon. <br /><br />On a recent outing with my friend Nicole we were getting our tickets to see a movie. We went inside and entered the actual theater where our movie was playing. When choosing a seat, from a few rows behind I heard; "Hey Kyle". I turned to see a couple of friends of ours beckoning Nicole and I to come over to chat before the movie started. When we reached the friends I said hello and followed it up with this gem; "so what movie are y'all here to see?". I knew the moment the words escaped my mouth how idiotic this sounded but could not stop speaking and neither could I pull the words back into my mouth. Oh my God you stupid man, I thought to myself, Of course they were there to see the same movie Nicole and I were there to see. You would have thought the fact that they were a mere 3 rows away from me in the same theater would have clued me in to this fact. There was no way to turn it around and I was forced to stand there and watch as the three of them stared at me, probably wondering how someone so stupid had made it to the theater in one piece. It was awkward for a few seconds and then the awkwardness gave way to ridicule at my expense, which I deserved. <br /><br />The other day I called Nicole and she told me she had been out late and lost her phone the night before. I immediately felt bad for her and then worried. What would she do without a phone? I wondered, maybe I have one I can loan her, I thought. In response to her revelation I then asked "Did you ever find it"? <br />Soooo....here's the thing, I had just used my phone to call her. I hit "NICOLE" on my contact list, it rang, and she answered. Even a third grader could put 1 plus 2 together faster than I could. After she got done laughing she filled me in on the fact that yes she had indeed found her phone. I am currently taking applications for a third grader to be my personal assistant. I am sure things will get done more efficiently this way.<br /><br />I think at times my stupidity really begins to drain on my friends nerves. When going to a movie I seem to have a bit of trouble understanding and or keeping up with plots. If I am not asking a question I should obviously know the answer to, I am sitting in the dark totally bewildered about what is happening on the screen in front of me. <br />My movie buddy Pam must get very tired of me asking things like; "When did she die"?, "What are they doing in that country"? or "I thought this was animated".<br />Occasionally I will forget what is going on all together and lean over to ask; "Hey Pam, did you watch GLEE last night"? staying focused seems to be another problem, Sorry Pam!<br /><br />Maybe stupidity is not really my problem. I really think I have ADD: Attention Deficit Disorder. I am completely serious about this. My mind just wanders from one topic to another. I know this bothers my friend Jenifer, she can be pouring her heart out to me about personal and professional problems and after a while will find me staring out a window with a dazed look on my face. After a while I turn to Jenifer and say "Jenifer, where do you think squirrels sleep at night"? "Do you think they sleep inside trees like in cartoons"? This type of response I give to someone leaning on me in a time of need must explain why no one really leans on me in a time of need. <br /><br />It's not just personal conversations when my stupidity exasperates people. At any given time I may get distracted by a shiny object and follow it into oncoming traffic, interrupt a personal conversation with a hilariously inappropriate and offensive joke I had heard or simply bitch-slap the person I am speaking with for an offense I had just remembered that had happened from months ago. "Why did you do that they cry"? "YOU KNOW WHY" I respond. My friends usually just sit there trying not to make any sudden movements that might spook me. They know that if they give it a couple of minutes I will lose interest in abusing them and move on to wondering what my middle name is. <br /><br />The older I get the more I just don't care if people think I am stupid or not, GOD knows I will just forget about it five minutes later anyway.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-19490410709480173782011-04-11T19:14:00.000-07:002011-04-11T22:53:55.357-07:00The Car Shart<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdMAHmKRKtJV8Jm-T3AmW2JgqM3cQHOGHb1p3c2f9bE2s71RsxT2lZxhF_NXyAIGsyiHi1FGw7ZZeH84yGHgnysy22mrG97DJ4LLfI3PljNHlyfc8u2yUYMdYkE2oNfhIsLq6QFRO0J741/s1600/crapped.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdMAHmKRKtJV8Jm-T3AmW2JgqM3cQHOGHb1p3c2f9bE2s71RsxT2lZxhF_NXyAIGsyiHi1FGw7ZZeH84yGHgnysy22mrG97DJ4LLfI3PljNHlyfc8u2yUYMdYkE2oNfhIsLq6QFRO0J741/s320/crapped.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5594515308473878050" /></a><br /><br />If success in my life was measured by embarrassing moments, I would be kings of the world. The level of shame I should feel by now would make Tiger Woods blush. <br /><br />Making a good first impression is not my strong suit. When that first impression is coupled with a first date, my emotions and nerves become overwrought it just becomes a bull in a china shop type disaster. <br />On a first date years ago the guy I was meeting was very cool calm and collected and I on the other hand had sweated through a shirt and a jacket and paced back and forth in the restaurant lobby, like a crazy person, waiting on my date to arrive. <br />When he got there, we had some awkward chit chat and ordered our meal. He had ordered salmon and steamed vegetables. I foolishly ordered like I was high at a state fair and selected everything that was either fried or drenched in rich sauce. <br />Aside from looking like the poster child for an anti-obesity campaign, the food I had chose was simply messy. Halfway through my fried corn on the cob, my date asked me a question. When I looked up I began to speak and chunks of batter and half chewed kernels of corn flew out of my mouth and onto my date. He looked like a vegetarian had had explosively diarrhea all over his face and shirt. <br />Where do you go after that? His idea was to clean himself off, make light of the situation and excuse himself never to be seen again. I can't blame him<br /><br />Like so many of my problems, what happened in late 2006 was another result of something horrible flying out of my body at the wrong time. <br />I had been getting over a stomach bug and was really beginning to feel better. In fact I had gone out with friends to a karaoke bar for the night and was very late getting home. About two miles from the house a gas bubble began to expand inside my intestines and beckoned to be released. I could not stand the pain and knew I had to be careful so I just pressed out a tiny bit to relieve myself if even just a little. <br />What happened next can be summed up with two words: CAR SHART.<br />I had managed, at the age of 34 to shit my pants. On top of that by this time I was only two blocks from the house. I drove with my butt off the seat until I arrived in the driveway. Knowing my roommate would be asleep, as he is a school teacher and gets up very early, I tried to be as quiet as I could. I snuck into the bathroom and cleaned myself up and bundled up the soiled clothing. I then went downstairs and discreetly placed the clothes inside and started the washer. I could not let the clothes sit in the hamper or it would end up smelling like a third world country by the morning. <br />A few minutes later Tom appeared in the laundry room and always positive and extremely easy to get along with, he confronted me about the late night wash and that it had woke him up. I profusely apologized and was forced to admit what I had done. "I shit my pants" geez I really sounded like a naughty toddler saying it out loud. Understanding as ever Tom looked at me and said; "that's OK, it happens to all of us" <br />Although his remark made me feel better, to this day I still wonder if crapping ones pants is just something that Tom's friends and family actually do on a regular basis and he has just come to accept it as a natural part of life. I mean does this happen to everyone? I can imagine a family sitting down to dinner and the mom nonchalantly telling everyone about her day. "Well I dropped off the dry cleaning, went to the grocery store and uh, oh yeah I made a poo-bomb in my car". And the family just keeps eating and nod their heads in understanding. <br /><br />I am betting the queen of England has never sharted herself in a royal carriage and had to hold her buttocks up over the seat as the horses make their way back to Buckingham Palace. <br />I guess at one time or another we are just handed these trials and life feels like a giant heap of shit. It's the grace you have as you emerge from that poo-laden Toyota Corolla that defines you. It also helps to have friends that understand and love you for who you are. And friends that can stand up and say "There goes goes Kyle covered in shit, I've been there, it happens to all of us".<br /><br />Feel free to include comments as to what one of your most embarrassing moments was!<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-62544568808763520842011-04-06T19:29:00.000-07:002011-04-07T17:25:13.620-07:00Paved with Good Intentions<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWlrjWhbH4KgkGAxz4IeSBZ-WARz-ZexBfF0HnmTNL8PI6c6U0xEZCdj2JkjXXbsMlfpTMpwXzqVwISEFTTi-0eeHym8AEmVal-5fTOFQzmF-RaTzxfO7gf0mcNLrnJCiwDeZZwpIjVzqk/s1600/good+intentions.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 229px; height: 220px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWlrjWhbH4KgkGAxz4IeSBZ-WARz-ZexBfF0HnmTNL8PI6c6U0xEZCdj2JkjXXbsMlfpTMpwXzqVwISEFTTi-0eeHym8AEmVal-5fTOFQzmF-RaTzxfO7gf0mcNLrnJCiwDeZZwpIjVzqk/s320/good+intentions.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5592663574141409778" /></a><br /><br />I spend a good deal of time bitching on this blog. SO I wanted to take a few minutes To tell you about some things I have done that have at least began with good intentions and a hopeful heart. <br />As with pretty much any action I take in life, even these end in disaster and come back to bite me in the ass. <br /><br />There is a bookstore that I regulary shop at and recently noticed a sign asking for volunteers for an adult literacy program. Teaching adults to read is actually something I have always imagined myself being able to do. First of all volunteering is selfless and makes you feel good, secondly, giving someone the gift of knowledge is priceless. <br />I filled out the forms and soon began enjoying the idea of mylself sitting with an iliterate person depending on me to fill their head with the power to make something of themselves.<br />I then started to have visions of myself spelling out CAT. "C-A-T, sound it out" The poor soul, who was lucky enough to get me as a teacher would try to impress me by sounding it out "kaa_AAAH-tttt". NO that's nothing like it is supposed to sound like I would think. It would not take long before I was pounding my fist in frustration and sweat would form on my brow. Eventually I would have enough of the situation and scream "WRONG! IT'S CAT STUPID"! Then I would stand up, flip the table over on it's side and march right out the door. <br />Luckily the iltiteracy group filled their required volunteer quota and an itliterate person was spared my impatience. <br /><br />For a brief time in 2002 I decided my life should include a bit of spirituality. I told myself going to church would be good for my soul, but the truth of the matter is I was just there to meet men. You can't really blame me for looking outsife of the bar for a boyfriend, and I thought that might be a good idea.<br />This was a predominantly gay church and that is what drew me to it (sorry Jesus). <br />This church was totally different from the conservative church I had grew up in where it was wrong to have instrumental music in the church or to dance. <br />The social aspect of the church was just amazing. Mimosas in the undercroft before and after services, fund raising events that involved costumes and elaborate themes and on one occasion even bar hopping after services in the name of spreading the good word. A lot of things were spread that night but I am not sure the word of God was one of them. <br />Approriately enough there was always a lof of kneeling we had to do during the services, allowing one to bow in redepmtion and also to strengthen the knees. <br />I would spend my kneeling time peeking out over the bowed heads of the congregation to view the most eligible members or to scout options for dating material. <br />I would like to say I actually did some good by joining the church, but that would be lying, and lying as we all know is a sin!<br />I don't think anyone really cared why I was there as long as I made a monetary contribution and showed up to the parties. The biggest sin one could committ whithin this congregation was to wear something that was from last season. For what it's worth I did like the people and I will always cherish my time spent at Our Lady of Snarky Comments. <br /><br />On a visit to Borders Bookstore my friend David and I discovered a homeless man sitting outside begging for money. Touched by his need David and I set out for the grocery store to purchase essentials this man might need to brave his life on the streets. <br />David began accumlating twinkies, Little Debbie snack cakes and an assortment of candy bars. Apparently David assumed the man was not only homeless but a pothead. <br />I on the other hand had collected hair gel, body lotions an an assortment of lip balms. I had assumed the man was not only homeless but gay also. <br />By the time we returned to the bookstore the man was already gone. We ended up eating the candy and I adivsed David I knew of a great local gay church we could donate the body products to. <br /><br />Most recently my good deed has backfired. Admittedly my good deed is really for my own benfit. There is a little scam I have going on at the deli counter of my local grocery store. The deli offers a $3 special for a bag of 2 chicken tenders and an handfull of potatoes. My scam is that I immediately engage the deli counter person in friendly chit-chat so that they will feel befriended and lose track of time,,all while forgetting they are stuffing my bag with an over amount of items. ( I said it was a scam I didn't say it was a good one or was very interesting). <br />Believe it or not this really works and the deli personell now know me by name and start getting my bag ready for me before I even get to the counter. I begin to ask about their family or job and the bag gets more full by the second. <br />I was out the other day away from the grocery store and saw one of the deli girls. She is always very friendly, too friendly and I stand there and listen to her crap all in the name of a bunch of extra calories I dont even need. The girl was very smiley and flirty and then proceeded to tell me I might have lost a little weight. I thanked her and responded that I was still chowing on chicken and potatoes so I probably hadn't actually lost any. Her rebuttal to this was; "that's ok I like a guy that's a little chubby". <br />My first thought was to reach out and bitch slap her. My second thought was that I might just stand there and cry for being called chubby. Lastly my third thought was genunine revulsion. I was being hit on by a cougar who had a bit of the mange and a moustache that would rival Tom Sellecks. <br />She ended the conversation by brining it in for the real thing and wrapping her greasy frame around mine to give me a bear hug. Although,,the smell of the chicken batter in her hair did stimulate something in me. <br />I swore from that moment on I would switch my focus to engaging the new guy in fruits and vegatables in small talk.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-5368807380891915452011-04-01T15:35:00.001-07:002011-04-03T09:59:59.362-07:0010 Things I hate about you<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibufrLJQ1dzAG58rRCUcvZVArjejpLL7seabbo4OEXaaMxXhbSN_Qo8_CjXpA5VcsFLe2h00e4XhskMX4rlpU7Tjlx3n0i9gl2Iu-70_dGuphbZn9ZftkD-xYSzhATYUFzJgWdc2jVZ3Fp/s1600/10.bmp"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 168px; height: 176px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibufrLJQ1dzAG58rRCUcvZVArjejpLL7seabbo4OEXaaMxXhbSN_Qo8_CjXpA5VcsFLe2h00e4XhskMX4rlpU7Tjlx3n0i9gl2Iu-70_dGuphbZn9ZftkD-xYSzhATYUFzJgWdc2jVZ3Fp/s320/10.bmp" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5590747580897341010" /></a><br /><br />People are just plain horrible. There I said it, and that being said, I don't feel that way in general about everybody, but there is a little list I keep in the back of my mind to rate my hatred. <br />I understand hate is a strong and horrible word, just let me say I only use it here to describe my loathsome feelings toward certain types of people and it is my hope they suffer harm and cruelty.<br />My list is compiled from least to most annoying. <br /><br />#10 The Clown Child<br />It's fun to be silly and light-hearted to a point. I once worked with a co-worker who thought it was cute to speak in the voice of a child. This behavior after about two minutes surpasses cute and and just becomes annoying. I found myself wanting to slap her across the face for talking back. (note to self: don't have children)<br /><br />#9 The Sad Doll<br />You know the type. It's the person who is always dealing with strife and disappointment in their life and takes it upon themselves to dump it all on you. Hey Frowny McSadPants, we get it, your life is a hot mess. Guess what? So is mine, I just don't take out a billboard to advertise it. <br /><br />#8 The Perv<br />Absolutely no one loves to say "that's what she said" more than myself. An occasional sexual innuendo has it's place in a social environment. But if you find yourself giggling every time you say the following words: Hard, Kitty, Wood, Blow, or Junk, it is probably time to only start hanging out with 11 year olds. <br /><br />#7 The Bore<br />You never have anything interesting to say, no ideas on what might be fun to do on a Saturday afternoon. Your idea of fun is to sit in a quiet room watching life pass you by. Welcome to Snoozeville population: YOU. You know what might be fun? Hanging with someone with a pulse. <br /><br />#6 The Creeper<br />It's that person who always has something to hide. It's the person who thinks Holocaust or Pedophile jokes are appropriate and funny to share at a dinner party. Look around. Are people actually laughing WITH you? We would rather invite drunk clowns with Bi-Polar disorder to game night than endure another round of Scrabble with you. <br /><br />#5 The Psycho<br />Full of drama, these individuals are quick to recant their latest story of being date raped, car jacked or water boarded. We endure their conspiracy theories, dating dramas and full on bat shit crazy hissy fits. The energy level it takes to listen to their over-the-top stories could power an electric shock therapy machine that could probably solve the problem all together. <br /><br />#4 The Flake<br />This is such a pet peeve of mine. I have a friend that flakes more than dandruff and Wheaties combined. This friend is a constant no call/no show for lunch dates, parties or general get-togethers. I personally try to make it a point to be there if I say I am going to be there and arrive on time. This friend even RSVP's at my birthday party once only to not bother showing up. My friend, much like my birthday candles I stopped counting on long ago. <br /><br />#3 The Bitch<br />This is the person we all know that is constantly pissed off at the world, and FYI it is NEVER their fault. If I wanted to be around someone that is constantly yelling at me about things that are most definitely out of my control, I would just move back in with my dad. <br /><br />#2 The Turd<br />Nearing the top of my list are those who can't seem to master the equation of SOAP + WATER = CLEAN. HEY NASTYBRITCHES, How hard is it to swipe a toothbrush across those rotted tic-tacs you call teeth? While you're at it, lets discover the wonders of deodorant also. There is nothing worse than sitting next to someone stewing in their own festering blend of greasy dead skin cells and rancid body odor. Granted a Lifetime Television Movie is probably a bit worse, but that is another list all together. <br /><br />#1 The Snob<br />I don't care how much money you make. Did I ask where you went to school? I am not jealous of the car you drive, and I don't give two shits about the clothes you wear. In the wise words of a Miss Shania Twain "That don't impress me much". Those who think they are better than others for absolutely any reason, piss me off. How do you expect me to be a stand up kinda guy, when you are constantly bringing me down? <br /><br />So there you have it. My little list of life's most obnoxious types of people. <br />Sorry if this just seems to be my own little bitch-fest. I have to deal with these feelings somehow,,,at least it's not METH.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-16479088237096113252011-03-26T17:36:00.001-07:002012-10-31T21:20:11.395-07:00Scared "Straight"<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEior5zNGHncaDReIy6j_cd_3qiUtRyvY8vxDl8zaQhTFSFnOYdf4hIb6582MbxrRtJyBmKyCPSVTtzD1MY-bCMF3HWBdZRJuJ_Grlwd4pi7EuqEGLfIOQ1fiiKlRctTCIZTk-nb3flb7R6g/s1600/fear+animals.bmp"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5588568072896220610" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEior5zNGHncaDReIy6j_cd_3qiUtRyvY8vxDl8zaQhTFSFnOYdf4hIb6582MbxrRtJyBmKyCPSVTtzD1MY-bCMF3HWBdZRJuJ_Grlwd4pi7EuqEGLfIOQ1fiiKlRctTCIZTk-nb3flb7R6g/s320/fear+animals.bmp" style="cursor: pointer; float: right; height: 252px; margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; width: 320px;" /></a><br />
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I live in a constant state of fear, sad but true. It's true because my fears are based on real things and sad because I am such a pussy that they would frighten me to begin with. <br />
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Let's take movies for example. I am not one of those people who get terrified by those bloody slasher flicks where maniacs are running rampant hacking people to death. I live in Texas and have been to the border, this simply doesn't phase me. <br />
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What does scare me in a movie is the unknown. Something horrific you could never imagine happening turning out to be true. After viewing the "Blair Witch Project" I was too scared to venture outside the theater, let alone in or around the woods. I can no longer be around corn fields thanks to the movie "Signs". I freak out at the blinking of a light compliments of "Paranormal Activity" and I too see dead people since watching "The Sixth Sense". On a side note I am also terrified of Zooey Deschanel's acting since being exposed to the movie "The Happening". <br />
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In a revelation of fear I am somewhat embarrassed about, I have to admit I get very nervous and in fact sometimes fearful about being around those with Downs Syndrome. I know, I know, I do feel ashamed admitting this and it is not because I feel these individuals are beneath me or anything like that. I think what I am scared of is again the unknown. I don't know what they are going to do and how am I supposed to respond when they do it. <br />
Is it rude to continue asking them to repeat something if you are not understanding what they are saying? To break the ice I would wonder if my mentioning how much I like the character Corky from "Life Goes On" would be appropriate. What if they spontaneously want to hug me? And not that I am considering this but what if I fall in love with someone who has Downs Syndrome? Is it wrong? These are just questions that run through my mind. The truth of the matter is no one is knocking down my door to wine and dine me at the moment, let alone an individual with Downs Syndrome. <br />
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I also have a total fear of sports. I don't enjoy playing them, watching them or even talking about them. Bring up the newest line of candles from Bath and Body Works and you can't shut me up. Sports on the other hand, they scare the hell out of me. <br />
The few occasions I have played sports have always ended badly. When I played junior baseball I never knew what to do. In a huddle when we were asked if anyone had any questions or suggestions the other boys rambled on about positions and tactics and I would ask when our new uniforms would be coming in or question the likability of our mascot. I am not making this up! I had no earthly idea what I was doing on that field and I certainly had no right being there. The coach had placed me in the outfield where I am guessing the bad players are sent. There was not much action in that position, thank God. I would spend my time in the outfield ignoring the game and picking bouquets of wild flowers for my mom. <br />
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I fear for my health, even when there is no reason to. My Friend Nicole is constantly reprimanding me for overreacting to my ever widening array of imagined skin disorders. Once, on our way to lunch, I noticed a small red mark on my upper leg. Visions of skin cancer and flesh eating viruses soon began dancing in my head and I couldn't concentrate on anything else. I instantly made Nicole aware of the situation at hand and was quickly scolded and told there was nothing to be scared of. "Nothing to be scared of"? Was she not looking at what I was looking at? I was turning into the elephant man before her very eyes and she blows it off like it is nothing. Like some distraught toddler I began to pout and point to my leg to further the legitimacy of my claim until we were forced to pull over to purchase a tube of antibiotic cream for what turned out to be a small scratch that went away in about two hours. <br />
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What is my number one fear in life? I would have to say animals. I am just about terrified of every single one of God's creatures big and small. I absolutely have what is called alektorophobia, which is the fear of chickens. This fear is to an extent that I can't even watch them on television. It begins when I think of the little cones on their heads, then their pointy beaks and moves on to the disgusting alien like objects they have as claws. I am restricted from venturing to petting zoos or county fairs. I prefer my chicken battered and fried in an original recipe of secret herbs and spices compliments of the colonel. <br />
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Reptiles also don't do me any favors. I am terrified of snakes. I look back now and I figure my fear is a result of being punished terrorizing my mother with rubber snakes as a child. My mom is also a big snake scaredy and would react to even the word being mentioned as though she had just witnessed a mass slaying. <br />
My brother and I would take it upon ourselves to sneak into the bathroom when she was showering and throw a rubber snake over the shower curtain and run. The result would be my mom locking herself into the bathroom and scream/cry for about 30 minutes afterwards. We would sometimes end up getting spanked if she hadn't cooled off by the time my dad got home from work. <br />
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The animal that sends the most shivers up my spine? Pit Bulls. You can say all you want about how they are bred to be killers by horrible people and that it's not really in their true nature. Whistle that all day long, I'm not buying it. These animals just scare the bejeezus out of me. A birthday party for a friend was being held at one of his relatives house. The man owned a pit bull that would freely make his way back and forth across the living area. I sat on the couch frozen in fear talking myself down from an imaginary ledge the entire length of the party. "Don't let it know you're scared Kyle, They smell fear" I silently told myself. "Oh Holy baby Jesus it saw you looking at it and that can be confrontational YOU IDIOT". <br />
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My friend Pam houses two very large dogs, one of which is a Pit Bull. These dogs are CONSTANTLY up to no good, destroying items in Pam's house, nearly killing other relatives cherished pets and generally causing havoc and chaos. <br />
Pam recently reported waking to a strange smell inside her home. These dogs had managed to actually turn the knobs on the stove to the on position releasing gas inside of the house as Pam peacefully slept. I am all for having pets but when they attempt homicide it is time to take action. I now warn Pam to watch her back with those dogs. My fear is that one day she will be roused out of her sleep with duct tape over her mouth, one dog binding her hands and the the other holding a knife to her throat.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-36322579067271579462011-03-20T18:30:00.000-07:002011-03-20T21:15:04.118-07:00MY GRANDMA GAVE ME COOTIES<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQyWba5xJwF5Fm-58WE2NAZA9s0MyO8gogGmG7LS3JcVRhX1fCy7uUTUQ9vrjn7eWHsS9aNVLNRcIXneKVgd4-uBcCZ7M_nkKURHdDKJMoG5g7otLrnaFS8pVD6XMzBlo8L6t4Mv5OhGsK/s1600/cooties.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 224px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQyWba5xJwF5Fm-58WE2NAZA9s0MyO8gogGmG7LS3JcVRhX1fCy7uUTUQ9vrjn7eWHsS9aNVLNRcIXneKVgd4-uBcCZ7M_nkKURHdDKJMoG5g7otLrnaFS8pVD6XMzBlo8L6t4Mv5OhGsK/s320/cooties.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5586340512329889410" /></a><br /><br />They say it's the thought that counts when giving or receiving a gift. If this is true and that the amount of thought reflects upon the giver,then people fall into two categories. 1. Caring to a fault and 2. Doesn't give a rat's ass. <br /><br />Although she meant well, My grandma Weaver was notorious for her bad gift selections. My grandmother would spend her Saturdays trolling yard sales and flea markets for gifts for her grandchildren only to show up on Saturday night a sack full of used clothing which often included underwear for my brother and myself. Proud of her latest garage sale chic treasures, she would hold up a worn out pair of boys Hanes and proclaim them "good as new once you bleach them". My mother would take the clothes with an appreciation for her thought but also a repulsion to it. We know what kind of person buys the underwear, my grandma. Who is actually selling this stuff? Did they run out of old coffee mugs and velvet paintings at their garage sale. At some point did the conversation go something like this: "We are almost out of stuff to sale for the yard sale, although little Johnny has just about outgrown his Fruit of the Looms, whadaya say we throw those in there just take make an extra 15 cents?"<br /><br />At one childhood Christmas get-together I was given the game "Cooties" by my grandmother. Cooties is similar to Mr. Potato Head, if Mr Potato Head had an outbreak of lice. Upon receiving the gift I was appalled at the uselessness in such a game and my nine year old little ass proceeded to throw one outstanding little hissy fit. This type of behavior was not acceptable in my family and God knows I knew exactly what would be happening to be later, but apparently the gift was so abominable I felt it was worth it to kick up my heels and have a tantrum. I was quickly spanked, preached to and demanded to return to the living room to apologize to my grandmother who had "taken the time to get me such a nice gift" I apologized but I didn't mean one word of it. Even at 9 years old I knew a shitty gift when I saw one. <br /><br />I personally don't give extravagant gifts but they most certainly come with a lot of thought. During a vacation with a boyfriend we camped in a tent in an old RV park outside of Eureka Springs, Arkansas. Neither of us had a lot of money and were doing good just to get to go away for a couple of days, even if it was the middle of a tourist area known for their celebration of the American Hillbilly. <br />I wanted to surprise Jason with a bouquet of flowers when he awoke. I snuck out early and noticed that there was a cemetery next to the RV park. I casually crossed over the fence and proceeded to pick a fresh collection of Iris and Tulips to bring to my boyfriend. They were just growing along the fence begging to be picked! It's not like a opened a casket and pried them out of their cold hands. I don't know where Jason thought the flowers had come from, but thank God he never asked. <br /><br />My time spent with another boyfriend brought two very special gifts: our first date and our last one. <br />I had told John that I loved salsa so much I could drink it straight out of a glass through a straw. On our first date he had invited me to his house for a special meal complete with homemade salsa sitting in a glass at my place setting with a straw in it and a note that read "for you". Before we get too teary eyed here lets jump ahead 3 months later to our last date. John had invited me to Joe's Crab Shack for dinner. A strange choice seeing as he knew how much I hate seafood. At the meal John announced that he was breaking up with me because he wasn't ready to be in a relationship, which is just a nice way of saying "I am just not feeling it dawg". Let me tell you I was happy to be wearing a plastic lobster bib, it helped repel both butter sauce and the tears that soon followed. <br /><br />My friend Rob is a notorious re-gifter. I have an annual holday party and if you are lucky enough to swing an invite to this glamorous social occasion you are urged to bring a gift that will be exchanged with a fellow guest. When my gift was presented to me I noticed it was the package that Rob had brought with him. I excitedly opened the bag that was overflowing with a selection of scented candles and bath and body products, all of which I then realized I had given him at some point over the year. WHAT THE HELL MAN? Even if someone else had gotten the gift did he think I wouldn't have noticed? Now when I buy him a gift I just pick out something I want, cause Lord knows I will be getting that shit back on my birthday. <br /><br />An ex-roommate I had who is still a good friend is a very distinct gift giver. Each year I came to expect something well thought out and very personal, even the cards!<br />Upon his return from a two week vacation he eagerly announced he had a gift for me. "I wonder what it could be" I thought. Local art from Cape Cod? A handcrafted gourmet item? A piece of clothing that detailed New England? I anxiously unwrapped his gift taking my time undoing the bow and placing each ribbon to the side. Carefully tearing down the walls of colorful wrapping paper until the item was finally revealed. There on the table sat a rather large bottle of personal lubricant. A gag gift? I smiled and looked at Tom who also smiled but with a look that said: "this is not a gag gift" OH MY GOD! Was this really happening? Is this what people thought of me, that a well lubricated sex act was now on the top of my gift expectation list. <br />Two years later Tom be quested me a pair of those underwear with the fake butt sewn into them. I don't think I really know what Tom thinks of me but I am pretty sure he thinks I don't have an ass, but I want to tap as many as I can get my hands on.<br /><br />When I worked at Olive Garden we had an annual secret Santa Christmas gift drawing. The limit is always twenty dollars and the gift I brought one year was a pair of microfiber memory foam house slippers. I thought it might be a nice gift especially for a server who was on their feet all day. Granted it wasn't one of Oprah's Favorite Things, but it was nothing to sneeze at and it did fulfill the twenty dollar minimum. Since the gifts were all wrapped no one knew what they were getting or of course who they were from. The gift I ended up getting was Sandra Bullock's "Murder by Numbers" This was 2009 and that movie had come out in 2002. How exactly did someone spend twenty dollars on it? It had clearance bin written all over it, but me being the Christian boy I am took it with love and admiration in my heart. <br />Our bartender Luke had picked up my gift and seemed genuinely content with it. I approached Luke later to try to get a clue as to what he really thought of the gift he hat gotten from his unknown secret Santa. "So what did you end up getting as your secret Santa gift Luke?" I sheepishly asked. Luke immediately turned red-faced and loudly proclaimed: "I got some crappy house shoes, just what the fuck am I supposed to do with them? <br />I had an idea what Luke could in fact do with the house shoes, but it being the Baby Jesus' birthday I kept it to myself.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-36179498750295430862011-03-16T18:21:00.000-07:002011-03-16T18:32:41.101-07:00Drive me crazy<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1_Bcv6GbeFSMDOJtcyDblGSgXg4hTfpsHLHdE5Gg3HAMGb9dyBGENLAQTOaCqkSCu2-ssrlLjxt3ltsYUhJ1vDn7pWFmxekuqu8Tgv0ecNHjZUiyGQgy9_-bvXXuiBYDWe8JvTHD683an/s1600/jar.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear:right; float:right; margin-left:1em; margin-bottom:1em"><img border="0" height="320" width="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1_Bcv6GbeFSMDOJtcyDblGSgXg4hTfpsHLHdE5Gg3HAMGb9dyBGENLAQTOaCqkSCu2-ssrlLjxt3ltsYUhJ1vDn7pWFmxekuqu8Tgv0ecNHjZUiyGQgy9_-bvXXuiBYDWe8JvTHD683an/s320/jar.jpg" /></a></div><br /><br /><br />Road trips have never really been my thing. I believe a major road block (pun intended) in my fear of road trips started during childhood. <br />Immediately as soon as anyone breathed the words road trip, my father turned into Jeff Gordon on a mission to deliver human kidneys to a children's hospital. The number one priority my dad had from then on out was to reach our destination in record time. <br />Unfortunately my dad's timeliness meant misery was in store for me. We stopped for NOTHING. Bigfoot could have wandered out of the woods wearing a bedazzled bikini and singing "Party in the USA" by Miley Cyrus and it still would not merit as much as a slow down. <br /><br />We would pass snake farms, the world's biggest ball of twine, historical markers and caves and caverns, each promising the thrill of a lifetime only to be told "we were making good time".<br /><br />Even bodily functions took a backseat,literally, to our driving time. When my brother or I had to go to the bathroom we were simply given an empty Peter Pan peanut butter jar and expected to discreetly do our business behind the passenger seat as if it were some secluded woods in the middle of nowhere. More than once I contemplated taking a number two in that jar just to spite my father. <br /><br />Seeing new signs and advertisements does interest me, but not to a point where I become mesmerized or confused over what I am witnessing. <br />While driving with a friends mother I was intrigued at how she had to read every single road sign or advertisement that came our way. It was her job to warn or inform me of any new sign I may have missed while keeping my eyes glued to the road. She would read aloud: "NEXT EXIT TWO MILES", "ROAD WORK AHEAD", "McDonald's EXIT 251B". Why do I need to be alerted to this I would think, as Linda recited the distance to the next 3 towns on a marker we had just passed. <br /><br />While driving to a spring break destination with my ex roommate, Tom had been sleeping and awakened to a sight be began to concentrate on out of the windshield. Tom was transfixed on the view in front of him and I had not really been paying attention to what he was staring at. "Is that a cow"? he remarked "It looks like a cow but maybe it's not" he continued.<br />"I think it's a cow he decided" I looked over to the side of the road discover the object of Tom's attention. There stood a big white church building with Jesus painted in black paint on the side. There was even a cross and stained glass windows on the side of the building. Now I was confused and a little frightened. Did Tom really not know what a picture of Jesus was supposed to look like? What scared me even more is than he had mistaken the Lord and savior to over a billion people on this earth, as a DAIRY COW? <br />"I think that's Jesus Tom, waiting at any moment four the Subaru we were traveling in to be struck by lightening. "OH Is that who that is" exclaimed Tom. The mystery being solved he turned his head and went back to sleep. <br /><br />I went on a birthday road trip to Dallas with my friend Jenifer, which reminded me that while half the fun is indeed getting there, it's the things you do when you get there that shape the memories you form about those destinations and your image of travelling as a whole. <br /><br />Jenifer and I first arrived in Fort Worth to visit the infamous Fort Worth Stock Yards. Having heard that the tourist site was where they held a parade and cattle drive every afternoon, we were really excited about this new adventure. Fliers, Pamphlets and television commercials each portrayed the parade on a level that promised to rival even that of any Macy's Thanksgiving day event. <br />The parade was to start at noon and we arrived a bit early and selected a cool spot under the shade of a sprawling live oak in anticipation of the clowns, balloons and floats that would soon transform the path in front of us in a party zone. <br />At precisely 12 noon a cowboy on horseback slowly meandered out of a corral as six tired looking head of Texas Longhorns lazily sauntered in our direction. "GET COW" the cowboy yelled and fifty five seconds later it was over. <br />"How'd y'all like the parade"? store clerks and locals would ask us later. "If you are speaking of the half dozen cows that were paraded in front of us for less than a minute, we liked it just fine thank you!" we would respond. <br /><br />During this same trip, Jenifer had made it her goal to visit the Hard Rock Cafe. It did not take us long to double fist a set of long island iced teas apiece and soon were were each pretty buzzed. <br />I persuaded Jenifer to venture to another bar just around the block in the cities famed West End area of bars and restaurants that sit under a jungle of overpasses high above the city. Little beknownst to me the West End area had become more of a hangout for the homeless than it was a tourist trap anymore. <br />Now Jenifer is the type of person that may need a little reassuring to even get in a taxi, let alone journey across a hobo camp to follow me on a bar crawl. Jenifer's buzz had now become sobering fear, whereas mine had slipped into brazen foolishness. We were soon stopped by a homeless man wearing a shirt advertising the early 80's movie "A Christmas Story" and asked for spare change. Jenifer's job had now become to NOT look the man in the eye and act as something far away was beckoning us immediately. My job had become to question the man about his fashion decisions. In my defense it was just hilarious to see this 6 ft five man wearing a shirt that detailed a little boy sticking his tongue to a frozen light pole that read "I double dog dare you". I took the words on the man's shirt just a little too seriously and asked the gentleman if it would not be too much trouble that if we did give him some money that we might be able to take a picture with him. The man obliged and I struck quick pose as Jenifer got out her camera. <br />Looking back it was probably a tad unsafe to be fraternizing with the locals the slept under a bridge with a knife in his pocket, I mean he was already pissed that he had to wear Christmas hand me downs from 1983 and now had drunk tourists taunting him. Jenifer snapped the picture and a glassy confused sheen quickly came over the homeless man. Jenifer whispered "I'm uncomfortable" and we ran for our lives back to the comfort of the Hard Rock for another round of Long Island iced teas.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-20225246102219458932011-03-12T15:42:00.000-08:002011-03-13T21:31:22.444-07:00MYTHS, LIES AND LEGENDS TO KEEP YOU SAFE<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifU4QW71eULS13v0l-wcfP-s8ut0PAPnhtkqqgPP-OB3sUS5lpZ0CE3H-Ur7IHfTU-60NmDZaZwBhzEG4GtXgXZRhj8Eim4zjkFHJOi-G_SKouL23iHCXt8vwENPXEHFrfolaWvdlnDvj-/s1600/ice+cream+man.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 257px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifU4QW71eULS13v0l-wcfP-s8ut0PAPnhtkqqgPP-OB3sUS5lpZ0CE3H-Ur7IHfTU-60NmDZaZwBhzEG4GtXgXZRhj8Eim4zjkFHJOi-G_SKouL23iHCXt8vwENPXEHFrfolaWvdlnDvj-/s320/ice+cream+man.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5583343764729727874" /></a><br />
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For the first twelve years of my life I was not allowed to eat corn dogs. My mother had told us that most likely the delectable treats, I would stare at in culinary wonder, were the product of questionable carnival workers with a penchant for using cat meat to make their goods. Thus began a life filled with worry about things that were most likely untrue. <br />
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I was a heavy child so the corn dog myth really got to me. It was almost too much to deal with when I would go to the fair and take in the scent of fried meal and byproducts being churned to a crisp golden brown. I once almost went against my mothers wishes and purchased the treat, until the thought of the local stray calicoes and tabbies being slaughtered, ground up and deep fried began to turn my stomach. <br />
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My mother is a very loving person, who only wanted to protect us from the evils of the world, but am one hundred percent positive that she truly believed every urban myth she handed down to us. Looking back some of the conspiracy theories she handed down to us during our childhood, don't seem to make any sense now. <br />
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Mom also warned us against purchasing treats from our local ice cream man because she believed it to be a ruse involving an undercover narcotics operation being run from from inside a frozen van. I often imagined the children buying blow pops and crunch bars would be later found in back alleys with their throats slashed in a pool of melted cream mixing with their own blood. To this day I still can't hear the tune "Turkey in the straw" without cringing. Nor can I simply pick up a pack of fudge bars without wondering about the illegal facade being used to bring it into my possession. <br />
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As I got older my mothers warnings turned to hazards of the roadway. She warned me to "never run over a box in the street, it may have a baby inside of it." A BABY? FOR REAL? This boggled my teenage mind and I found myself wondering how exactly this feat would happen in the first place. Why would someone put a baby in a box in the street and not just throw it in the garbage? Could they not get the baby to stop crying? Was it like accidentally throwing away an item like your keys, but with a baby instead? Had the baby been bad? I still have the urge to dial Child Protective Services when seeing a bag of trash or packing box that has made it's way into to the street. Part of me actually wants to get out and look for the baby inside, but the logical part of me is too scared to think of actually responding to someone who sees me doing this. "Oh no I am not homeless, just checking for abandoned babies". "YES I"M SERIOUS" "NO I DON'T WANT YOUR DOLLAR, I AM TRYING TO SAVE A NEWBORN LIFE HERE!". <br />
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During this time I also witnessed the protective myths and warnings issued by the parents of my peers. In Junior High School a mentally challenged girl by the name of Liz had been told by her mother that if she kissed a boy she would become pregnant. Liz actually had a boyfriend in Junior High, a feat I was actually jealous of. Even today when a relationship ends for me I find myself thinking "Geez I bet Liz doesn't have this problem". Nevertheless, Liz's boyfriend did in fact kiss her. Remembering her mothers warning Liz began to dress in larger blouses and sweat pants to hide what she thought was her impending baby bump. To make matters worse somehow Liz had managed to accidentally superglue her left eyelid shut, forcing her to come to school wearing an eye patch. For a full month that poor girl endured every "retarded baby pirate joke" that could be flung at her until her mother found out about the kiss and set the record straight. <br />
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My father had myths of his own he tried to instill in my mind. I look back now and realize his superstitions actually grew out of homophobia. My dad insisted I only watch shows that he thought would not promote any type of gay behavior. MASH and GUNSMOKE reruns were on 24 hours a day. I desperately yearned to watch GOLDEN GIRLS and DESIGNING WOMEN but had been warned previously against viewing them. <br />
I now wonder how a situation comedy centered around four senior citizen women would invoke one to become sexually attracted to a member of the same sex. DAMN BETTY WHITE AND HER GAY AGENDA! <br />
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In keeping with my fathers wishes there would be many things in my childhood I would do without including; teal colored clothing, bubbles, facial care products (except LAVA soap), candles and once when I was eleven a really cool R2D2 necklace from the STAR WARS collection. <br />
On the approved list were; flannel shirts, fishing poles, BRUT cologne, RED WING work boots and on special occasions an orange sherbert push up bar from the ice cream man to the chagrin of my mother.<br />
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All in all I didn't turn out so bad. I do however eat corn dogs like there is crack cocaine inside of them. Have a frequent buyer card at Yankee Candle. And still find myself sneaking off to watch the Golden Girls. LONG LIVE BETTY WHITE!<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-70453493643250087222011-03-05T22:36:00.000-08:002011-03-05T23:45:22.371-08:00Bad Romance<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBxAEtyXOJ-Mx-Pmvzzba0ZBKUezdUmoS-QKdRKF728bJjEP7toqjBRhL46j1vKuCUhEKvMCfNVHtgpksbDBcLmJ7z27sy04yhydks52wDcGXH7DjT5IEbIZUAcg53Q1iov-TDa5aesqNO/s1600/hooters.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBxAEtyXOJ-Mx-Pmvzzba0ZBKUezdUmoS-QKdRKF728bJjEP7toqjBRhL46j1vKuCUhEKvMCfNVHtgpksbDBcLmJ7z27sy04yhydks52wDcGXH7DjT5IEbIZUAcg53Q1iov-TDa5aesqNO/s320/hooters.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5580853370020173698" /></a><br /><br />I am a true believer in romance. I like cards, flowers and gifts as much as anyone, but what really makes an impact with me is how well the first date goes. Unfortunately my first dates go about as well as a Charlie Sheen custody trial. <br /><br />On a recent date I let the guy I had met pick the restaurant we would be dining. Keep in mind I am a gay man about to go on a date with another gay man. I was instructed to be at Hooters precisely at 6pm. Was this a joke of some sort I wondered. Could I possibly be getting punked? Unfortunately it was not a joke. I spent about fifteen minutes of our first date hearing about his sexual rendezvous, bouts with depression and legal mishaps. Next came a course of warm beer, greasy chicken wings and more than a fair share of breasts. I couldn't take anymore and excused myself and walked out. <br /><br />On another occasion I was asked out by a doctor to go to a Mexican restaurant. You would think a doctor might be able to afford a date, especially if he is doing the asking. This was not the case however. We had met online and the picture I had access to showed a fairly good looking gentleman in his late 30's, dark hair with a friendly smile. When the man showed at my door step I almost shooed him away with a broom. Was it just me or was this man the spitting image of the character Gollum from the Lord of the Rings sage?<br />Gollum asked that I drive to the restaurant that he had chosen. We arrived at a very nice Latin restaurant and were soon given chips and salsa at our table. Immediately Gollum reached out both arms wrapping them around the chips and salsa and pulling them to him in something like a protective bear hug. I reached into the bowl for a chip and am not sure but I think he had started to growl at me. <br />When it came time to pay I would have been fine paying for my own, but Gollum had asked me to come here, to an expensive restaurant with him. We both stared at the bill like it was some sort of circus side show highway accident, until I could take no more and paid the Bill myself. Gollum asked me to watch a movie at his house with him , but fearing I might have to pay part of the cable bill I politely declined. Gollum slinkered back to his condo, his belly full of chips and salsa. <br /><br />My first date with a co-worker was with a man I had worked with at my second job at Restoration Hardware. I was very excited to go out with Ryan. He was very attractive, seemed a little shy but friendly and sweet. Our first date involved ordinary take out and watching a movie at my place. Everything was going fine until Ryan announced he thought he had another movie in his car we might enjoy. Honestly I think it was clear we both were not enjoying the acting skills of Madonna in the feature presentation "The Next Best Thing", so I said fine. Ryan returned with a large selection of pornographic movies and announced we could watch any that I wanted to "my choice". For real man? Why does that freak factor have to come out every stinking time? Why can't, just once, the movie my date brings with him be "Breakfast at Tiffany's" and not "Breakfast for Tiffany".<br /><br />I think my worst date would have to be with a younger guy. Mark was always at the clubs when I was still going out in my late 20's. Eventually he asked me out and aside from being a little immature he seemed like an OK guy. Mark took me to Red Lobster and to impress me ordered a bottle of wine. Really it doesn't take that much to impress me on a first date anymore. Show up with shoes and most all your teeth and we can usually strike a deal. Mark insisted on the wine and our server asked for his identification. Mark immediately looked nervous and handed the waiter his drivers license. The waiter apologized and announced he could not offer Mark wine because he was underage. OK, so he is not 21 like he told me and is 20, no biggie i thought to myself. I am sure he is embarrassed and doesn't want to bring it up. As our conversation progressed I asked if he had class in the morning. Mark had told me that he was in his first year of college. "Tomorrow is a teacher work day. In College? I pondered. Oh sweet baby Jesus this was not happening to me. A million thoughts immediately ran through my mind and half of them involved NBC's Chris Hanson and a decoy. I immediately carded Mark. EIGHTEEN he was in high school. HIGH SCHOOL! but thank God he was 18. Had it really come to this? Me, escorting high school seniors to the local Red Lobster? <br /><br />All in all I am still a believer in first dates. I just now try to not let them involve high school students, boobie bars or porn.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-67694657148491749432011-03-02T21:15:00.000-08:002011-03-02T22:32:48.332-08:00Broken Chairs and Biker Bullies<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqvjV2xr53avb6zLg_dOgrAF8Zjv7hbj6mbhVg8mG5v3sLGDB70s-xUUrp57Ej9Wqt4mE5j8Rv7kyTXM-nm-UzF3YR715aq7EdpRXG1lEMJyVXLpMnszVhRGyo6rOEgZNeVcGi9fWdO3qN/s1600/chair.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 219px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqvjV2xr53avb6zLg_dOgrAF8Zjv7hbj6mbhVg8mG5v3sLGDB70s-xUUrp57Ej9Wqt4mE5j8Rv7kyTXM-nm-UzF3YR715aq7EdpRXG1lEMJyVXLpMnszVhRGyo6rOEgZNeVcGi9fWdO3qN/s320/chair.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5579718491885018770" /></a><br /><br />A few years after college my good friend Teresa and her husband invited me an annual party their friend Bluto held at his lake house. Yes, Bluto looks exactly like you are imagining him. Six foot five, with a shock of curly black hair exploding away from his face sitting defiantly atop a three hundred pound frame. <br />My friend David and I accepted the invitaion and made our way toward the lake house. We arrived to find 30-40 people partying in what appeared to be a hippy commune complete with a tie dye station and copious amounts of herbal medication and beer stacked in every fridge and ice cooler on the grounds. The lake house itself was very nice and not what we expected. This was a three level structure with an outside deck on each level overlooking the lake. <br /><br />As we entered the residence David immediately became nervous and I advised him to just have a beer and try to relax. David was not used to a rougher party crowd and some of these people could definitely party. <br />As the night progressd we became more and more intoxicated but still well within functioning status. The crowd became louder and louder. Before long I noticed through the main doorway a man entered dressed in what appeared to be a Hells Angel's style Biker getup, complete with a big mustache and dingy denim and leather from head to toe. David had immediately zeroed in on the biker. For one reason or another bikers in particular scared the bejeezus out of David. The look in Davids eyes said; please don't rape me and leave me for dead. This did not look promising. <br />Ignoring the biker, Teresa and I somehow had begun amusing ourselves by singing redneck mountain music in duet form for the room to enjoy. As we began our tribute to the tv show Beverly Hillbillies, complete with song and dance, the biker mistook our backwoods showmanship for a personal invitation to drunkenly stumble around the room offering his square dancing prowess to anyone who might be interested. <br /><br />David, now drenched in sweat was averting his eyes to the wandering biker and mouthing what appeared to be the Lords Prayer. Now David was by no means a small guy, shorter than Bluto but weighing the same. David had glued himself to a small wooden chair in the corner atop the munchy food consisting of about 20 bags of Lays potato chips. And then it began to happen. The biker approached David, doing a little jig from side to side, slapping his leg and yelling "YEE HAW" into my friends face. "How bout a little trip around the dance floor buddy"? the biker slurred. A tear formed in the corner of David's eye and he quietly said no thank you to the offer to be paraded around the room by the bastard love child of Grizzly Adams and Dog the Bounty Hunter. <br />The biker decided he had been rejected enough during the evening and fell on top of david and the rickety chair. David was now receiving what I think was supposed to be a head noogie. David had tried to play it cool and was now in full freak out mode. The last words we heard before it happened was a cry/scream of "NO, GET OFF OF ME PLEASE". And then with a single but defining crack the partygoers eyes all focused on the catastrophe in progress. It seemed to be happening in slow motion. A crack, a splinter, a muffled cry followed by a drunken gaffaw and the next thing you know the chair is in hundreds of pieces and David and the biker locked in an unintentional position that I don't think was cool with Jesus.<br /> To this day that moment still sets the record for the funniest moment of my life. I couldn't help but scream with hilarity as those around me lifted the man off of David and tried to make sure they were both ok. <br /><br />The biker was eventually escorted from the party and David was now practically inconsolable and embarassed beyond belief. One by one peope came up and patted him on the back and expressed their genuine embarrasment for the situation. <br />David had offered to pay Bluto for the chair with Bluto telling him not to worry about it. We decided to take David upstairs away from the crowd and potato chip dust that was reminding him of what had just gone down. <br /> <br />On the upper deck David, myself, Teresa and Bluto each relaxed in the cool night air. The deck had been furnished with an expensive patio set that included a giant oak and crystal lantern sitting on the railing that belonged to Bluto's parents. After about a half hour David was now feeling in control again and we decided to try to make our way back down to the party. David had been leaning against the railing behind Bluto and Teresa and pushed himself off the barrier to go inside. As David pushed he also had managed to knock down the lantern wich was now tumbling toward the lake rocks. I looked at David, he looked at me and then came the crash. Bluto having already made his way inside turned around to ask "what was that sound?" "NOTHING" we both said and quickly made our way out of the party.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-6648033656857572792011-02-24T18:03:00.001-08:002012-07-25T16:57:21.960-07:00The Price of Beauty<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFxOJ7BQEmZYDvufi9Xvp42wZ4yAkZ1lxyMGbSuG6Xo9Yw2XpVC2RwH3xHyFswSfJzju5ziN48kyGN6e3MKBjPpGONk5iIUF21Q59QUpl1P1O83IEflfo4LP6SLXAdSU48FiD0o_-LTSLO/s1600/bad+haircut.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5577441994680757490" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFxOJ7BQEmZYDvufi9Xvp42wZ4yAkZ1lxyMGbSuG6Xo9Yw2XpVC2RwH3xHyFswSfJzju5ziN48kyGN6e3MKBjPpGONk5iIUF21Q59QUpl1P1O83IEflfo4LP6SLXAdSU48FiD0o_-LTSLO/s320/bad+haircut.jpg" style="cursor: hand; float: right; height: 320px; margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; width: 288px;" /></a><br />
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Ask anyone who knows me and they will tell you my hair is the most important feature in the general makeup as it pertains to me as a human being. First my hair, then bodily hygiene, and then somewhere way down the list is morals, respect and dignity. <br />
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In days of old I did not, let me repeat; DID NOT!, play messaround when it came to getting my hair did. I simply did not have a problem cutting a bitch if that coif did not come out perfect. <br />
The problem I have now is that I am poor. It sucks to be poor not because of the struggle to pay bills, or not having the best material things. It sucks because you have to get your hair cut at the beauty school. <br />
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For those not in the know, let me educate you on the beauty school setting. The beauty school is usually located in the bad part of town. If you pass a hobo camp you have gone too far. If you pass a homeless shelter you have not gone far enough. Right in between these establishments lies the beauty school. <br />
Step inside and you are immediately hit with the smell of peroxide, nail polish remover and the tears of dozens of young women and gay men who could not pass English 101. <br />
I will admit the momentary high from the chemicals is pleasing, but soon you are escorted to your chair, surrounded by hundreds of scalped and stained mannequin heads that seem to be frozen in fear of being highlighted and permed. <br />
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My first experience with a beauty school was just a couple of years ago when I was on my break from work. I had an hour to get my hair cut and get back. Knowing there was never a wait at the school and that the cost was only $5 plus maybe a couple of bucks as a tip, I ventured inside. <br />
The student I was assigned to was Rosalinda. Rosalinda was a recent transplant to this country whose English vocabulary was made up of the words; yes and okay. <br />
I was prepared because I had brought with me a snapshot of Ryan Seacrest who had the perfect textured bed-head style I was looking for,,,this is not the funny part!<br />
Unfortunately me handing the picture of Seacrest to Rosalinda, and her looking bewildered, would be the extent of our conversation. Rosalinda nervously circled my chair and examined every aspect of my head. By the look on her face I couldn't tell if she was nervous or was contemplating being struck with a sudden case of diarrhea. <br />
The circling went on for about 15 minutes. She would take regular breaks to examine the picture or stare uncomfortably down at the floor. By this time I only had 30 minutes left to finish up the hair cut and God only knew how long that would take. <br />
I made eye contact with Rosalinda and slowly, and very politely I might add, said in a soft voice; do you think I might be able to sit with a student that speaks English?<br />
This was Rosalinda's cue to burst into tears and plop herself down in the chair next to me. Several students and a school administrator rushed to her side and comforted her while I awkwardly sat beside her. <br />
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I was escorted two chairs down. My new student was a very happy-looking Asian girl with a wide smile on her face. "well at least less chance of crying" I thought. "Thanks for helping me" I said "I really didn't mean to cause a problem" although she probably didn't hear me over Rosalinda's continued sobbing. "It's OK Rosalinda, he is not very nice" the administrator whispered in a not so quiet way. I pushed aside the fact that I was not six feet away from the bereavement going on at Rosalinda's chair. Nor was I deaf for that matter!<br />
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I gave my new stylist a look that said I BEG OF YOU, PLEASE HELP ME. "I just need a quick cut and I will be on my way" I offered. "My stylist's response to this was to giggle and put her hands over her face. "You want haircut"? she asked, which I kind of thought was implied seeing as though I was strapped to a stylists chair, covered in a black plastic sheath with my hair soaking wet. "You want haircut?, I cut your hair" and again she giggled and hid behind her hands. <br />
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WHAT THE HELL MAN? Was this the ELLIS ISLAND SCHOOL OF BEAUTY? It had now been 45 minutes and not a single hair had been cut from my head. I calmly got up and took off the black covering and strolled into the business office and asked for my money back. I was told to sit in the waiting room and wait on the administrator to come out. <br />
I wasn't trying to attempt a corporate takeover of the beauty school so I am not really sure why it took ten minutes to refund my five dollars, but the administrator finally did come out hand me the five back and bent down to whisper, "we ask that you not return to this school, thank you" I took the money and walked out but I thought to myself, was she serious? Did she really think I was racing home to try to weasel my way into another appointment?<br />
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As I got into my car I couldn't help but wonder what exactly had just happened? In 45 minutes I had managed to crush the dreams of a beauty school immigrant and had effectively been banned from the establishment from unleashing my hate on anyone there ever again. If I walked away with anything from that experience it is just knowing that beauty does come at a price. It just isn't five dollars.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-37232313964669021552011-02-23T20:02:00.001-08:002011-02-23T21:22:39.478-08:00Dancing Days<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNJQNp95Wos-9Xjp1pRgG4hnuD19b6_H6TFgj4TGAHJcRZyYgxbMnH8EZURWFW1hk_PSZFmsHH1dcPUSY8NXSnObgvxfV3LlDseoXYaN-Oy6Jk2lvSWnlQv1Jxbzx441pqCY_3vw8kPxgW/s1600/stripper.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 225px; height: 224px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNJQNp95Wos-9Xjp1pRgG4hnuD19b6_H6TFgj4TGAHJcRZyYgxbMnH8EZURWFW1hk_PSZFmsHH1dcPUSY8NXSnObgvxfV3LlDseoXYaN-Oy6Jk2lvSWnlQv1Jxbzx441pqCY_3vw8kPxgW/s320/stripper.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5577101592965216146" /></a><br /><br />Have you ever done something just to get by? Just to pay the bills? Something out of the ordinary no one would expect you to do? <br /><br />It was the summer of 2000. I found myself looking for a job and existing funds were quickly running low. Bills were piling up and the electric would soon be shut off. <br /><br />During a recent visit to a local club, I noticed the male dancer they had that night resembled a sad version of Colonel Sanders in a G-String with what possibly could have been meth residue on his fingers. Having had quite a few long islands by this time I jokingly hopped on stage and took my shirt off and danced for a few minutes. I quickly made a few dollars and hopped back down and started to exit the club. The owner stopped me and said if I ever needed a job to come and see him. I laughed off the invite and went home. The following week those bills got to the point where something drastic had to be done. I nervously went back to the club and asked if the job in question was an actual paying gig or a clumsy sexual come-on. The offer turned out to be valid and I found myself with an actual paying gig as a dancer. <br />Dancer is an extremely nice way of saying stripper. I mean I wasn't in some sort of chorus line or backing up Beyonce, Instead of backup, I would literally be "backing that thing up" for closet cases in a seedy part of town in a classy little establishment called the "Bamboo Lounge" <br /><br />I have seen strippers in action before both male and female. My friends decided to buy me a female lap dance as a joke and I guess instead of wasting their money on the pretty girl, I instead got a middle-aged crack addict, shoving her half-trimmed hoo-ha right up in my face and I swear I think I saw what appeared to be bullet wounds, cigarette burns and quite possibly the beginning of a nasty ring worm infection. Did I think stripping was glamorous? Hell no. I knew exactly what it was, a way to make money. It did nothing sexually for me to strip or see strippers in action and to this day get no pleasure in watching it. <br /><br />I had two days before my first show. I carefully watched what I ate, ran 4-5 miles a day and lifted weights like I had had just been cast on "Jersey Shore". <br />The night of my first show I sucked up my pride and my gut and nervously walked into the club. Immediately I ordered shot of Jack and even considered walking out before I started. "Electric bill" kept humming in my mind and I went backstage to get dressed, or in this case undressed. So at this point I was ready to climb onto the stage. Let me just clarify what is considered a "stage" at The Bamboo Lounge. First you take an extra large dog kennel and then you lay a piece of plywood on top of it and then you call it a day, cause you just built a stage my friend. <br />I climbed sheepishly onto the the stage and soon heard the plexiglas of the dog kennel begin to creak. "male stripper killed after falling through dog kennel at gay bar" this would be the headline. To my astonishment the kennel held and the music started and the Jack began to course through my veins. <br />This wasn't so bad. In fact it was kinda easy. Drink, dance and collect dollars. I worked for two and a half hours and went home with $150. At this point I was drunk, happy and at the same time a little confused. Where the hell were these losers getting the money to tip me with. Most of the patrons looked like they were late for their cameo on "COPS". Who cares, I thought, I have electric. <br /><br />As time went by I got a regular day job but continued to dance twice a week and began getting calls to work at other nicer clubs. The Renegade was a local club that was a tiny bit nicer and actually had 3 dancing areas. A real stage with a real floor and not pet transports, a cage overlooking the club, and what was my favorite area, a corner of the club with a glass encased working shower. <br />I shared a dressing room with other dancers and the drag queens that performed at the club and had to maneuver my way around fake nails, glitter wigs and a bevy of props and costumes. <br />I began to make more money at the Renegade and began to learn the tricks of the trade. Number one: let a customer buy you a drink but NEVER DRINK IT! Number two: Never go on a date with someone that has tipped you, no matter how hot they may be. Number three, and this is the most important of all, NEVER GET OUT OF SHAPE. <br /><br />The hardest part of stripping is not laying your humility and pride at the door for everyone to walk over, that I can deal with, it's watching what you eat. No one wants to tip a dancer with love handles. I was working out an hour and a half at a time now sometimes twice a day and subsisting on a diet of water and ex lax. When those shows were over though I would head straight for the grocery store and buy a tub of roasted chicken and a pint of ice cream. <br /><br />Another surprise to me was that not everyone tips in dollar bills. I would collect dollar coins, foreign bills, business cards with unwanted propositions and one time a really nice guy gave me a coupon for a free pizza, I should have married that one. <br /><br />Believe it or not the very best thing about dancing is the self-esteem boost I got from it. In High School I was a very nerdy,overweight and unpopular kid who was dealing with a shitty home life and not knowing what to do about the fact that I was gay. I never went on dates. I never had friends over. And I was terrified to be at home and terrified to be at school. I never felt like I belonged anywhere back then. But for one year at the Bamboo Lounge I was a bar star.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-91161766547007665532011-02-09T19:21:00.000-08:002011-02-10T19:01:39.560-08:00The Dog Lisperer<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCuO3nEgZZOTxUP-fFP84ZuHNalmggm-IRGjbt9_coOxdPlqEtMWZ2Lwi36aBl5Ca7RI_GhADjB5kBin_Euzjh71dp5d6SeDATASGa3R1ugCso3_egBCBj7_xUBFwZyKLbyLbqJoqSf4k-/s1600/dog.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 218px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCuO3nEgZZOTxUP-fFP84ZuHNalmggm-IRGjbt9_coOxdPlqEtMWZ2Lwi36aBl5Ca7RI_GhADjB5kBin_Euzjh71dp5d6SeDATASGa3R1ugCso3_egBCBj7_xUBFwZyKLbyLbqJoqSf4k-/s320/dog.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5571896200845801954" /></a><br /><br />When I was a toddler my mother would often find me crying, screaming and jumping up and down in my bed in the middle of the night. She discovered I had been having nightmares of dogs attacking me. The nightmares faded but my annoyance and even fear of dogs continue to this day. <br /><br />OK, I get it. People love their dogs, I choose not to. It's not that I hate them. I just am not a fan of being around dogs. <br /><br />There was a time in my life that was especially tough for me. It was one of those times when you say to yourself "this is not where I am supposed to be at this point in my life." Nevertheless, I was there and fortunately for me so was my friend Andrea and her floor. Oh, also her short haired dachsund named Spud. <br /><br />I would sleep on Andrea's floor on a pallet of blankets and sheets. I had an incredibly crappy job, little if no money and to top things off on this certain day, my car had been reposessed earlier in the evening. Like I said not a good time. Feeling extremely depressed I crawled into my makeshift bed, stretched out my legs and enjoyed the tiny bit of comfort I had knowing that at least I had this to be thankful for. My eyes were just starting to relax when I noticed something wet at the bottom of the pallet. "How in the world did the blankets get wet" I thought. <br />Upon closer inspection I discovered the perpetrator. <br /><br />Spuds bladder control problems were not limited to bedding. The dog would pee on ANYTHING. Often we would pick up the phone only to say "hello" into a wet receiver and turn away in disgust as our lips dripped with dog urine. <br /><br />Andrea and I had no washer and dryer and I found myself walking, blankets in hand to a laundry center at midnight to clean what was basically the only thing I had left in the world. After an hour and a half I returned to the apartment and began assembling my bed again. Mentally, I was just drained. I had cried, cursed and finally consoled myself back into a state that I thought just may by some luck allow me to finally rest my weary mind and go to sleep. I crawled into the fresh bedding and thought to myself "how could anything get any worse?" Rest was seeping into my brain when my foot switched places and " OH SWEET BABY JESUS!" "SPUD!" I screamed<br />my foot had landed in another puddle of dog urine at the bottom of my soaked blankets. Spud had evidently left the gift for me in the freshly laundered bed after I had shut the door to go to the bathroom. Literally thirty seconds alone time I had allowed myself. For just a brief moment I thought about defecating on the animal to see how he liked it and then thought how comfortable that shorthaired skin might feel to sleep on tonight. The only thing saving Spud that night was the thought of me getting kicked out of Andrea's apartment once she found her dog lying lifeless in a pile of human turds and me crying and rocking back and forth in the corner. <br /><br />Beleive it or not I don't hate dogs. I don't think of them as evil or even unfriendly. It was quite the opposite, as a matter of fact, during a recent date I had had. I found out the level of closesness and friendship a dog can develop in a very short time. This was a first date, very casual, and I had been chatting and having drinks with a guy at his house. This was my first time being invited over and also a first time to meet his 80 lb Golden Retriever. The dog was what you would consider a little too friendly and had what appeared to be an uncontrollable slobbering problem to go along with his lack of respect for personal space. <br /><br />I spent most of the evening trying to push the dogs head out of my crotch. I would stand up, turn around, angle my body a different direction and each time the dog would finds its way back and center it's attention on my reproductive system. <br /><br />While embarassing me, this didn't seem to bother my date in the least. Did he not see me covering my groin? Was it not obvious I didn't enjoy the attention. You would think my running around the room and twisting my body like a contortionist to drive the dog away would have sparked somewhat of a clue that I might not think this as being as cute as he did. OH NO!, Now I was getting worried. What if he had trained the dog in some perverse behavior? I tried to push that idea out of my mind and continue with the conversation. <br />I sat back down on the couch and the dog made another beeline for me. What the hell man? Had I accidentally slipped some dog treats into my boxer briefs before heading out for the evening? That is when I thought to ask my guest "So do you have a treat for the dog?" My host went to the kitchen and returned with a handful of dog treats he then handed the dog. I thought this plan ingenious, but of course as my luck goes, backfired. The dog gobbled down the treats and had returned its attention to me. I now sat on the couch covered in so much dog saliva it looked like I had wet my pants. To make matters worse I was now encrusted with dog biscuit crumbs. <br />The unwanted attention got so uncomfortable I finally excused myself from the date. I made a mental note that if there was a second date I would bring a dog bone stuffed with Benadryl. <br /><br />So to summarize. Dog pee and dog saliva, bad. Dogs, good. Unless by chance the person I end up spening the rest of my life with owns a dog, I most likely never will. I truly believe dogs can provide companionship, health benefits, loyalty and years of unconditional love. It's a doggone shame those qualities come with urine and slobber to boot.<br /><!-- AddThis Button BEGIN --><br /><div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style "><br /><a href="http://www.addthis.com/bookmark.php?v=250&username=ckyleweaver" class="addthis_button_compact">Share</a><br /><span class="addthis_separator">|</span><br /><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><br /><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><br /><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><br /><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><br /></div><br /><script type="text/javascript">var addthis_config = {"data_track_clickback":true};</script><br /><script type="text/javascript" src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=ckyleweaver"></script><br /><!-- AddThis Button END --><div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-86703558511248904662011-02-06T09:08:00.000-08:002011-03-12T18:17:18.133-08:00Justified and Ancient<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7pb39uETEFSFq6Ia2tgfz12j_hwxJf5g_MG8gnuiFmX-IDw7fhlh1REFhI_oahyphenhyphencgOug79-6wdre1gdk-5JlzOwraczsW3EHrtOXtwGmLVsx-RGeqaKcp8zDYN7aK7cDeo6sGeuDheoyo/s1600/old.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 242px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7pb39uETEFSFq6Ia2tgfz12j_hwxJf5g_MG8gnuiFmX-IDw7fhlh1REFhI_oahyphenhyphencgOug79-6wdre1gdk-5JlzOwraczsW3EHrtOXtwGmLVsx-RGeqaKcp8zDYN7aK7cDeo6sGeuDheoyo/s320/old.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5570625656266276434" /></a><br />
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The saying "life gets better with age" was probably stated by someone with Alzheimers. In my opinion life as we know it does not get better with age but instead caters to the young, the goodlooking and the idiotic. Taken into account this reasoning may explain the popularity of UGGS, Botox and every member of the Kardashian family. <br />
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At the age of 39 I still find myself sometimes wandering into an Abercrombie and Fitch. Yes thank you, I am aware of the age group of the shoppers of this store but I can still look can't I? I think this is some sort of majical store that can alter a person just by walking through the doors. Without any explanation whatsoever my age doubles to 78 the minute I step inside. I grab my ears in disgust as the "sinful devils music" is blasted from the sound system. Is it me or is it just soooo loud in there? Don't answer that question. <br />
Every wall in this store is splayed with 15 by 20 foot pictures of supermodels, both male and female, who seem to look down on me as to say "Hey fatty, we have no big and tall section here, be on your way." I look down in shame and run past the mannequins, who even seem to have a condescending look on their lifeless faces. <br />
It's not that I am severly overweight, it's just that a size large at Abercrombie is what many would consider a size more appropriate for an anorexic toddler. <br />
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Now that I am older, throwing caution to the wind is totally out of the question, whereas getting winded or breaking wind seem to be more of a common occurrence. <br />
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Going out with friends on a marathon binge of Jack Daniels with beer chasers has been replaced by staying in for a Murder She Wrote marathon, drinking a slimfast and then chasing the neighbor kids out of my yard. <br />
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The toys of my youth involved Slinkys, Play-Doh and G.I. Joe. The toys of today are more likely to be video games that involve assalting hookers, killing nazi zombies. Girls may choose to play with a new line of urban whore dolls who come complete with their own std's and coupon for a free tattoo. <br />
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I haven't quite gotten to the point where I am having dinner at 4 in the afternoon at a Luby's Cafetaria, but those 1 a.m. McDonalds runs are a thing of the past. <br />
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When I buy alcohol or order a drink at a restaurant I find myself anticipating being asked for my I.D. or at the very least questioned about my age in some manner. "Surely sir, you are much too young to be legally partaking in alchohol" our server will say. "In fact can we get you a childs menu."<br />
Instead I sit card at the ready and am met with a knowing smirk that says "put your drivers license away old man and if you play your cards right I may even throw in a senior discount." <br />
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The absolute worst thing about getting older is that people stop getting your references. I was introduced to a new co-worker not too long ago whose name is Carol. "Hello Carol" I said "so good to meet you , but I am horrible with names so I will think of Carol Burnett whenever I see you to remember your name." Carol is a very nice sweet girl who responded with a polite laugh and said "I just love Carol Burnett" I was delighted to hear she was a fan of someone I also enjoyed and remarked "Oh you are familiar with her work?" "no" said Carol "but my grandfather is a big fan and tells me about her all the time." <br />
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There are of course plusses to getting older. No one expects you to remember things like graduations, dr. appointments or your own name most of the time. <br />
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That pungent aroma of Ben-Gay, lonliness and Death seem to keep away unwanted attention from pets. On the flip side of this argument, Who is going to judge you if you become an animal hoarder? I mean what else do you have going on?<br />
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And lastly rest assured no one will ask you to babysit, when it is your own diapers that constantly need changing. <br />
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Yes, it's a harsh new world for the elderly of tomorrow. The best you can do is slap on a new pair of depends and try not to give a shit.<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2463950527208302820.post-80856674679523582272011-02-03T17:43:00.000-08:002011-02-03T18:33:42.370-08:00Clogs, Cocktails, Coffee and Cancer<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiC7ZiNIRnrIllDuDjUaAV-sUZQkdTGk0Ki1DM6PoTAK8H65CogLq1G11FukaeaM1fR6lL8qAHf4Ds0HP95c4pblnSotaQRycEZs_Qfep59k2oAnluyLpSLzI61aK63fkr5G3VYeAo-yIoU/s1600/cda.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiC7ZiNIRnrIllDuDjUaAV-sUZQkdTGk0Ki1DM6PoTAK8H65CogLq1G11FukaeaM1fR6lL8qAHf4Ds0HP95c4pblnSotaQRycEZs_Qfep59k2oAnluyLpSLzI61aK63fkr5G3VYeAo-yIoU/s320/cda.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569645245448871746" /></a><br /><br />Several years ago some friends and I would get together every year in Coeur D'Alene, Idaho to go on what is popularly known as a booze cruise. This endeavour involved two of my favorite things. The first was the tranquility of cruising a beautiful glacial lake enveloped by the Rocky Mountains of Northern Idaho and the second: booze.<br />The cruise company sold these buckets of liquor concoctions called "De-railers". To the best of my knowledge the recipe for "De-railers" is one cup fruit punch and 3 gallons of whatever is running through Lindsay Lohans bloodstream. <br />My problem with these drinks is that they are meant to share. My friend Nikki and I were "sharing" this beverage, but from her point of view I am sure it was more like her having a sip while watching me guzzle the bucket of alcohol faster than one of those hot dog eating champions from Japan. It no doubt became embarrassing for her when at one point onlookers applauded and began dialing the Guinness Book of World Records to question the fastest anyone has ever died from alcohol poisoning. <br /><br />I was a completely at ease, in the middle of an ice-blue crystal clear lake, surrounded my friends and best of all my buzz was in full effect. The were a few people at our table of friends I did not know very well, one of these being a girl named Stacy who I was becoming fast friends with. The boat was set up so that there were tables in the lower deck and a huge dance floor on the top. What happened next I can only blame on the "De-railers" and my own drunken lack of common sense. Most of the girls had gone upstairs to dance leaving the guys downstairs to drink and visit. <br />Under our table I had noticed my friend Nikki's shoes on the floor next to my seat. Given the opportunity I will make a complete jackass out of myself for a quick laugh, and this occasion was no different. In my head I told myself "How funny would it be to put on her clogs, march upstairs and begin dancing right next to Nikki while wearing her shoes. Drunk Kyle decided this plan was genius and I slipped on the way too small shoes and began maneuvering my way up the steep side steps that bordered the edge of the boat towards the upstairs dance floor. <br /><br />I reached the top deck, spotted Nikki and made my may over to her clumsily wearing her clogs, readying myself for the laugh of a lifetime. "How funny is this I thought<br />as I reached Nikki only to look down and discover that Nikki was in fact already wearing her shoes. "What how could this be" I thought. <br />I quickly scanned the dance floor and noticed my new friend Stacy dancing in near the middle of the dance floor in her bare feet. "Oh Shit" is what immediately came to mind. <br />Now the next step for any logical person would be to remove the shoes I had basically stolen from a girl who 15 minutes ago I had never met. This for some reason was out of the question for me and I slowly teetered backwards toward the stairs leading back downstairs. <br />Step by step I was as careful as I could possibly be while being drunk on a moving boat, going down 6 by 14 inch steps bordering an open lake. Blame it on my stupidity or the "De-railers" but the inevitable happened and I was soon tumbling down the steps landing 10 feet down on the lower deck with my body on the floor and my legs hanging off the side. <br /><br />I was drunk and a little bruised but safe. And then I heard it hit the water. "Plunk" Stacy's shoe had been balancing off the end of my big toe and fell straight down into the water. I quickly scrambled to reach out into the water and collect the shoe but instead it floated right past my hand. I very briefly considered diving into the frigid water to collect the shoe but then thought about the headline the next day. "Drunk man dies attempting to collect ladies footwear."<br /><br />I made my way back to the table and waited for Stacy to explain the details of her missing clog. Stacy, for her part, was a real trooper about the incident. I am guessing the "De-railers" she had been drinking were partly to blame for her nonchalant reaction. <br /><br />I managed to keep my embarrassed, drunk ass under control until we made landfall again and decided to finish the evening with an early breakfast at Denny's.<br />I immediately asked for a cup of coffee to help sober up a little. I sat next to my friends Leslee and Derek, who at the time had only been married a few years. Reaching for the artificial sweetener someone remarked, "Kyle, that stuff will give you cancer". Ever at the ready to produce a snappy comeback I replied "A little cancer never killed anyone!" A round of laughter filled our booth and I started feeling just a little better about the nights events and recovering from my embarrassment. That is until my friend Leslee casually turned to me and whispered quietly in my ear "you know Dereks first wife died of cancer, Right?"<div class="blogger-post-footer">a href="http://humorbloggers.com" ><img border="0" style="display:block;border:0px solid #000000;margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" alt="humor blog" src="http://i403.photobucket.com/albums/pp113/humorbloggers/HBDC2.png" border="0" /></div>Kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01528641490349117116noreply@blogger.com0